WRONG PHILOSOPHIES

WRONG PHILOSOPHIES

It's high time youth of this generation know that some philosophies use in the Past might no longer necessary in this present world . And if any man want to go far in life he\ she should not follow or act base on this old philosophies of life.

1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it
happened. You have a part to play in what will be in your
life, so don't leave it to chance.
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2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a
full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting
belief that positions you to settle for less and it is
a mediocre to philosophy. Those  who own bakery do not have two head they make things happened.
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3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he
refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too
late to become wise because the day you wake up
and wise up is the day you CHANGE!`
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4. *"ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL"*
```Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not
equal but that does not make any of them
valueless. Lose one and you realise that they are
all valuable. You are not even a finger, so why
look down on yourself. You are not born in a silver spoon home does not make you poor unless you choose to.
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5. *"LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY"*
```If you are below forty and believe this, I feel so
sorry for you because it means you are not yet
alive you are only exist.
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6. *"WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN"*
```Is your age coming down? Is your wisdom and
knowledge coming down? Is the price of goods
coming down? Think my friend!` why do you have negative thinking about your success? must you think of failure?
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7. *"HE WHO LAUGH LAST, LAUGHS BEST!"*
```Why laugh last when you can laugh always and
why laugh best when laughter is not a
competition. When we programmed ourselves
with these strange philosophies, they limit and
restrict us from doing what we supposed to do now. Change the way you think and talk..
You will change your world.
You have the opportunity to RECREATE YOUR
WORLD`.
©coachFlowey`

Potential wife beater

                              POTENTIAL WIFE BEATER
Lucy wake up and discovered she was in hospital bed and she began to wonder how she get there. Later in the day things begin to have meaning to her. It all started five years ago when she first meet Jake at single for eagle summit and they exchange contact. From there their relationship started, but one thing Lucy never take notice of is the way Jake was posses of her. She only thought it is because his love her for that is why he so posses of her.

And all the sign that is glaring to Lucy face then, that she take with levity hand are.
Command tone; whenever they are together back then during their courtship Jake is the commander, always dictate everything for Lucy like what clothe to were, type of functions she should attend and the kind of friend she should keep, and any time she want to resist any of the law Jake will shout on her threatens her with break up. But it's unfortunate Lucy never see anything wrong with this, to her so far he never raise his hand on her before so she ASSUMED and THOUGHT that all is well.

Movement monitored; Anytime Lucy try to go out unknown to her Jake use to monitors her movement and whenever she wanted to make call Jake would have to confirmed that is not another man she wanted to call, that is when they are still dating. still with all this Lucy never see anything wrong.
All this never matter to her because all that matter is the fact she the one and only girlfriend of his.

But today after become mrs Jake all that never count before have now become real issue in her marriage because any little argument now will surely lead to serious beating, Lucy being the receiver while Jake is the giver. And the one that lead her to the hospital bed is because her cousin called her just to hear her voice since it has being a while they see each other but it's so unfortunate that "I love you" was the last statement mr Jake heard from her wife before he descend on her until she became unconscious without confirming who she is talking to.

To you reading this are you Lucy in your current relationship and your supposed future husband is mr Jake and you still  think there is no problems or cause for alarm. May be you even think all that matter is love and since he love you and he always give you money.

You even count he's possessing of you as being having time for you.  But I will caution you to look at handwriting on the wall. Leopard can not change is spot so thinking for him that he's still going to change from that habit of command you, following you all around or harassing you either in public or private is lie from pit of hell.

Mind you a healthy relationship must not have trust issue if he can't trust you now he will never trust you. And do stop deceiving yourself by thinking there won't a better man if you drop this potential wife beater because its a matter of time before he's going to turn you to a punch bag if he has all this sign and you did not quit.

Note; love do not posses love protect, love do not command love correct, love do not kill love heal, love do not confuse love convinced, love do not destroy love build....Flowey

Marry late with a peaceful mind is far better than early marriage full of trouble and all sort of problems.... Flowey

AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Virtue lady

               MESSAGE FOR OUR LADIES
Fashion is good in fact I
support you to wear clothes that will look smart
on you but mind you any clothe that exposed your
body is not only bad but also you are exposing
your destiny.
also moderately make up is good but too much of
it will just turn you to a masquerade in woman
form.
speaking good English is good to communicate
but forming a fake ascent just to impress will not
only destroy your moral it will cause you your
destiny too.
And who told you black is not beautiful, you don't
have to bleach your skin before you can attract
good guys. as matter of fact you are bleaching
your destiny in the process because you will only
attract no future guys with your bleaching skin.
what I'm preaching is self confidence be satisfied
with your real self you are not two you're just one
and be sure that nobody can make you feel
inferior without your consent .
©coachFlowey

The Real You

                THE "YOU" INSIDE OF YOU
You are destined for success, breakthroughs, progress and greater things in life only if YOU inside of you allowed it.
Listen the truth is bitter you will have to swallow it anyway if you want to succeeded in life.

It is not the opinion of people about you or the conditions you found yourself that will determine your success but what is inside of YOU. Your background will do less or nothing neither your academic qualification will make you scale through the hurdles of life but what is inside of YOU.

D.D.D.F.A explained something about life and they are as follow.

DETERMINATION; if you are not determine to make sure the you inside comply with you outside you will be frustrated with issues of life in a short run, that is why you will have to determine within yourself that you will not quit in the part of success you have choose.

DEDICATION; even working with chevron if you are not dedicate to the work you are assigned with you will be shown the way out before you know what is happening. Dedication will make your work different from others that have been doing it for long.

DISCIPLINE; You will have to discipline the you inside to comply the real you outside if you want to go far in life because it's certain your body will surely want to to go against the necessary cross you suppose to carry before your crown.

FOCUS; Yes you hear the word focus, choosing a carear is not enough like wise gained admission into higher institution is not big deal but staying focus is the key that can change your name to success make you live in breakthrough avenue and drive achievement car.

ATTITUDE; Even if you have knowledge in all area of life but have bad character you will not move forward talk less of making it in life. Good character is like a light unto your path that will make you see ahead of others.

In all this remember the G factors which is God the father Jesus Christ the son and the comforter Holy spirit and your ways will be prosperous.
Known this the sweetest revenge ever is to show the people that thought you can't make it by succeed in all ramifications of your life.

Every morning wake up with new life and say no matter the matter I will make it because once you can deal with YOU inside of you, you will surely make it.
I challenge you to RISE UP, DRESS UP and GROW UP to your dreams.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

New plans

                                DEVELOP NEW PLANS
There are two times when a person is likely to quit, after a failure or after a victory. Instead, if at first you do succeed, try something harder. All progress is due to those who were not satisfied to let well enough alone.
The majority of men fail because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to improve those that succeed.

Do more than is required and continue doing it.
There is always a way then there is always a better way. When you've found something-look again. "It's what you learn after you know it all that count," say john wooden.
A successful man continues to look for work after he has found a job.

Show me a thoroughly satisfied man, and I will show you a failure by Thomas Edison. To achieved greatness in life you don't have to be satisfied with the little you are earned now.

AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Relationship proposal

                          RELATIONSHIP PROOSAL
Marriage is not for toddler in adult age it is meant for matured mind.
If any one go into! Marriage because of society view such person is going to rush out with regret.

You don't marry because of age, academic qualification, financial status nor because of beautiful or handsome. You will have to marry base understanding of to fufil destiny.

Finding a soul mate is not talking about sex compatibility neither is talking about the most beautiful or one of the handsome guy but talking about your missing ribs, the one that can fill your weakness with strength, your hopeless situation with hope.

You must know whether you are dating or in courtship with your partner because courtship is meant for talking out your differences while dating involve in testing(sex).

Any relationship that lack communication is heading to destruction.
You don't assumed for your partner that they supposed to know every right decision to make that is why you are there as helpmate. Talk it out resolved unnecessary argument.

Trust is one of the most important key in relationship; for relationship to be successful you must trust your partner no matter what happened. If you can't trust him/her completely you don't have business in rrelationship.

And do remember the number one key factor in relationship is prayer because you don't want to choose base on physical assessment alone. You will have to go spiritual, communicate with God and be sure of what you are entry into is not four nor five year course in the four wall of school.
YOU WILL HAVE TO PREPARED MORE FOR MARRIAGE THAN WEDDING IF YOU WANT TO HAVE SUCCESSFUL MARITAL  LIFE.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Change the only constant thing in life

        HOW DO YOU SEE THE WORD 'CHANGE'
Change, does this word scare or inspire you?
"A living thing is distinguished from a dead thing by the multiplicity of the changes at any moment taking place in it" by Herbert Spencer.
Change is evidence of life. It is impossible grow without change, the truth is life is always at some turning point.

What people want is progress, and they can't have it without change. You must change and recognized that change is your greatest ally. The person who never change his opinion, never correct his mistakes. The fact is, the road to success is always under construction. Don't end up like concrete, all mix up and permanently set.

You can can not become what you are destined to to be by remaining what you are. Do not fear change, it is unchangeable law of increase. Those who cannot change their mind cannot change anything in their life positively.

All progress is due to those who were not satisfied with their status quo.
In conclusion; change is what make you see your past mistake and correct them and make you focus towards future.
I'm going to drop the pen with this quote: "make a change and lead, accept change and survived, resist change and die.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Gratitude make us have more abundant

Success isn't accumulating possession, wealth, or power.
Success is obeying God. It means having those closet to you love and respect you the most.....Flowey

Loving people precedes leading them. People don't care how much you know until they know much you care.

It takes less time to do a things right than to explain why you did it wrong.

To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.

Learn to love without condition. Talk without bad intention. Give without any reason. And most of all, care for people without any expectation.

Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon... must inevitably come to pass.

I believe that children are our future. Teach them well and let them lead the way. Show them all the beauty they possess inside.

Every now and again take a good look at something not made with hands- a mountain, a star, the turn of a stream. There will come to you wisdom and patience and solace and, above all, the assurance that you are not alone in the world.

Never fixes your eyes on your problem, but fixes your eyes on God
Never feed on your problem by ruminating on it, but feed on God by surrender all to him....Flowey

Just as you wouldn't leave the house without taking a shower, you shouldn't start the day without at least 10 minutes of sacred practice: prayer, meditation, bible  reading.

There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

It is never too late to be what you might have been.

The most interesting thing about us is our ability to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering.

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is one of  the greatest accomplishment.

Most times your joy is the source of your happiness which bring out the beautiful smile on you. So while would you let someone, environment or situation determine your joy.

[ Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.

It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow....Flowey

Gratitude brings us closer to our creator an attitude drag us away from our Creator and away from helper....Flowey

Have a gratitude heart not an attitude heart....Flowey
©coachFlowey

What is your Habit

                 AN HABIT CALLED EXCUSE
Excuses is the most use world for lazy people. It's one the favourite of failure people because they use the word often to justify their actions.

When it comes to excuses, the world is full of great investors. Failure are experts at making excuses available if you are weak enough to use them.
Mistake have hidden powers to help us, but they fail in their mission of helping us when we blame them on other people.

When you use excuses you give up your power to change and improve. "Never mind of whom you praise but be careful whom you blame". You can fall down many times, but you won't be a failure until you say that someone else pushed you.
Never complain and never explain. Admitting errors clears then score and prove you wiser than before (Arthur Guiterman).

Doing a job right is always easier than fabricating an alibis for why you didn't. You waste time and creative energies thinking up excuses.
Nearly all failure come from people who have the habit of making excuses.

In conclusion the book of proverbs says, "work bring profit; talk brings poverty. If you are good at making excuses it will be hard for you to excel in anything you do in life.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Lies die hard

                      LIES DIE HARD
Broken promises cause the world's greatest accident. You can't make wrong work. Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom said by Thomas Jefferson.
Never chase a lie: if you leave it alone it will run itself to death.

Everything you add to the truth you inevitably subtract from it. It's discouraging to think how people nowadays are more shocked by honesty than by deceit.
"Those who think it is permissible to tell 'white lies' soon grow colorblind" (Awson O'Malley). Will punish ourselves with every lie and we reward ourselves with every right action.

A lie will add to your troubles, subtract from your energy, multiply your difficulties and divide your effectiveness.
(Marcus Antoninus) said "Truth is always strong no matter how weak it looks, and falsehood is always weak no matter how strong it looks."

Never view anything positively that makes you break your word.
Make your word your bond. Dishonest gain will never last say the book of proverb, so why take the risk.
Truth exist. Only lies are created.
If you continue to do what's, right, what's wrong and who's wrong will eventually leave your life.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Decision making

                                               DECISIONS MAKING
If you don't decide what's important in your life, someone else will decide for you. A wise person makes his own decision; an ignorant one follows public opinion.
Don't worry about not making decision because surely someone else will make it for you whether you like it or not.

Your destiny is not a matter of Chance; it is a matter of choice.
Get out of the middle of the road. Standing in the middle of the road is very dangerous; you can get knocked down by traffic coming from both direction.

A man with one watch knows what time it is; a man with two never is never quite sure. Until you are decisively commited, there is hesitancy and the chance to draw back, followed by ineffectiveness. Listen to what you say, if you hear yourself saying "I've decided", you're on the right path towards an exciting and productive life.

Decisions are what transform and idea into a reality.
A key to your future is that you can still choose, you can still decide. What you commit yourself to be will change you from what you are into what you can become.
DECISION DETERMINES DESTINY

AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Imitation is limitation

                 IMITATION IS LIMITATION
When was the last time someone said to you "You are different!" I believe that you and I are supposed to stand out, not blend in.
Let me remind you what 1peter 2:9 says, "But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people." Dare to be what you are.

Think about it: Aren't most of the discontented people you know trying to be something they are not or trying to do something they're not supposed to do. Resolve to be yourself.

Most people live their lives as complete strangers to themselves. Don't let that happen to you.
The easiest things to be in the world is to be yourself, and the most difficult thing to be is what other want you to be. Do not allow that to happen.

The opposite of courage is not fear, it's conformity.
The most exhausting and frustrating thing in life is to live trying to be someone else.

"My mother said to me, 'if you become a soilder you'll become a general, if you become a monk you'll end up as the pope.' Instead, I became a painter and end up as Picasso," said by the great artist.

You can't become great by imitation. Imitation is limitation. Don't be a copy cat of something. Make your own impression.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

The Advocate

                  THE ADVOCATOR
Mr Sam have case of murders raping lying and felony in court of law and the evidence against him is very strong that if care is not taking he might not come out of it.

But fortunately for him someone somewhere direct him to barrister J whose is so good in what he did.

Immediately the judge set his eyes on barrister J he knew within himself that the saviour of Mr Sam is here because everybody knows that the barrister is very good in what he do.

After three hours of arguing, defending and asking questions, he eventually win the case in favour of Mr Sam without collect a penny from Mr Sam.

So since then the only things Mr Sam seem fitted to repay barrister J back is by telling people's about barrister J everywhere he goes that its only barrister J that can defend you from your oppressor and infront of the judge only if you go to him.

What are we saying; this is parable, the judge is God which is ready to forgive you all of your sin if only you come through right channel the oppressor is devil whose job is to acuse you all the time, Mr Sam in this story is you and me (Rom.3:23, Rom. 6:23),

while barrister J is Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Whose after three days in the grave overcome the devil and seize  the key to eternal condemnation

Jesus Christ of Nazareth is the only person that can defend you in front of God and its only one that is authorized to shut up the mouth of your oppressor because all power in heaven and earth has be giving unto him (ROM. 8:5).

Go to barrister jesus today because he's the only solicitor that is gaurantee that can defend you and make you be at peace with your creator (ROM. 10:9-10). And if you have already know him don't be selfish by refuse to share it to other people's who have not hear about barrister J that can set them free from their oppressor. Be like Mr Sam, tell others about barrister J

REMEMBER YOU DIDN'T LOOK FOR GOD BUT GOD IS LOOKING OUT FOR YOU........Flowey
It begin with this.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Prepare for marriage not wedding

Circumstances do not make you what you are, rather.
They reveal what you are

The question is not ,"Are you going to fail?"
The question is, "How are you going to handle your failure?"

Most people spend more time planning their wedding than they do planning their marriage..... Flowey.

©coachFlowey

When given give all

                                    GO WITH FLOW
The secret of living is giving. One way to judge a person is by what they say, a better way is by what they do. The best way is by what they give.

To feel for other in your life it has to start from your wallet.
An Indian proverb say "Good people, like cloud, receive only to give away".

Whatever good happens in your lives is not so you can keep it all to yourself part of it is intended to be given to others. Known this "Whatever God Can Get Through You, He We Get To You".

The book of act say "it is more blessed to give than receive". Giving is always the thermometer of our love for others.

Selfishness always ends in self destruction. Henry Drummond said, "There is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving."
The test of generosity is not necessarily how much you give but how how much you have left.

WHEN IT COMES TO GIVING, ARE YOU A PERSON WHO WILL STOP AT NOTHING.

Whatever you give is life, always give wholeheartedly and joyfully.

Credit (Why Ask Why)
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Food for thought

If you want to help others,don't just know your Faith
alone - show your Faith too.

Most people want to change the world to improve their lives. What a wasted effort, if they would only improve themselves, the would be better off and so would the world.

In youth we want to change the world. In old age we want to change youth.

People stop growing when the price get too high.

People buy into the leader before they buy into the leader's vision. If you want to lead, you must sell yourself.

Admit your failures quickly and humbly. The people already know when you've erred,but they'll appreciate your right spirit.

It's wonderful when the people believe in their leader; it's More wonderful when leader believes in people.

True test of stewardship

The true test of stewardship is not what your God do for you But what you are doing for God......Flowey

What you perceive... determines, what you receive
which Determines how you achieve.

Church is not a place to display your worth (clothes, shoe,bag,car) but a place to renew your strength (physical, spiritual, financial, academical)...... Flowey

©coachFlowey

Room for self improvement

GIVE ROOM FOR SELF IMPROVEMENT

Have you ever noticed how many people you know who are literally at the same today as they were five years ago?. They still have the same dreams,the same problems, the same alibis,the same opportunity. They are standing still in life.

It's as if people unplug their clocks at a certain point in time and stay at the fixed moment the rest of their lives. You are destined to grow,learn and improve. Jesus said "I have come that you might have life and life more abundantly".
The biggest room in our lives is always the room for self-improvement.

What I do everyday is to try to learn from everyone. From one I may learn what not to do, while from others I learn what to do.
Learn from the mistake of others; it's not until you made  the same mistake too before you laern, you can never live never long enough to make all mistakes yourself. You can learn more from a wise man when he is wrong than a fool who is right.

The person who is afraid of asking is ashamed of learning. Only hungry minds can grow. W. Fussellman said " Today's reader are Tomorrow leaders." It's fun to keep learning, learning brings life to your life.

credit(Why Ask Why)
AYEDERO OLAYEMI
©coachFlowey

Go for the opportunity around you

        Do You Go Where Opportunity Is
        OR Where Opportunity Is Going.

Go farther than you can see. Don't just look at the present.
Think unthinkable thought, see where no one is looking and take actibefore it's obvious.

Do you know while God made the world round is to never allowed us to see to far dawn the road. Know these " significant achievements have never been obtained by taking small risks, on unimportant issues".

Henry stern say " if you re hunting rabbits in tiger country, you must keep your eye peeled for tiger ,but when you are hunting tigers you can ignore the rabbits".

You have reached stagnation when all you ever exercise is caution. Too many people expect little, ask for little, receive little and are content with little.

Having a dream is not trying to believe something regardless of the evidence ; dreaming is daring to do something regardless of the consequences. Brother's and sister's today let your FAITH run ahead of your MIND.

credit(Why Ask Why)
AYEDERO OLAYEMI
©coachFlowey

Purpose of prayer

The highest purpose of faith and prayer is not to change your circumstances but to change you.

Prayer may not change all things for you, but prepared you for all things.

Don't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things.
"Our thought lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; character fixes our destiny's
©coachFlowey

Cast out your fear

                Do You Look At The Horizon And See An Opportunity
                OR Do You Look Into The Distance And Fear A Problem?

Fear is a poor chisel to carve out your tomorrows. If you are looking at

your future from a position of fear,I want to let you know that view is

inaccurate and distorted .it's never save to look into the future with the eyes of fear.
The worst liars in the world are your own fears. One of the greatest
discoveries you can make is to find  that you can do what you where afraid you couldn't do.

The different between faith and worry said by Williams ward

" worry is faith in the negative, trust in the unpleasant, assurance of disaster and believed in defeat. Worry is a magnet that attract negative condition. Faith is more powerful force that create positive circumstances... Worry is wasting today's time to clutter up tomorrow's opportunity with yesterday's troubles."

"An old man was ask what had robbed him of joy in his life. His reply was,things that never happened"

Fear wants you from things that are not after you. Here's is what I do. I follow this famous advice " at night, I give all my worries and fears to God. He's all night anyway."

I Peter 5:7 put it this way; " let him have all your worries and cares, for he's always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you."

AYEDERO OLAYEMI
©coachFlowey

Stop dying in silence

              STOP DYING IN SILENCE
A solid relationship is foundation for a good marriage and any marriage that must last the foundation must be solid one base on truth and understanding that is why its so important to know what you are entry into. Haven't said that I want to discussed something so important that our culture do ignored.
We found ourselves in side of continent that they take culture so serious and in a such setting it allowed only the men to do the talking is asking a lady out, in our side here especially Nigerians in Nigeria we expect the man to ask a lady out and not in other way round, but this is 21's century for crying out loud there are something we need to adjust if we don't want to left behind, do not mix quote me I'm not saying culture is not good but my dear read STOP DYING IN SILENCE go for what you want.
If a lady see a guy that she like there is nothing wrong in asking him out I mean absolutely nothing wrong after all there is no place where they write that God has compulsory that it must be the man job to do the talking alone but why you are about to approach the man HOPE for the best and PREPARE for the worst because not all lady that take such BOLD step that do come out with testimony but its better than to be dying in silence. But first and foremost before you take the bold step do consider some the sign and character listed below with seriousness and consciousness:
DO YOU LOVE HIM OR LUST AFTER HIM; seen a guy you like is not enough you must know and be sure of what you have for him it must be either love lust, are you having feeling for him because of his physical body like tall fair six pack etc, if that is what drive you towards him are his physical appearance alone then I will advice you not to take the bold step because its sure you are going to be the one to suffer for it at end of everything because all handsomeness do fade away its a matter of time before six pack turn to pot belly so never ever ask him out because of his physical features alone "that is lust and not love" on the other hand if its geniue love you must have being CONVINCED beyond a reasonable doubt and not CONFUSED because every bless day your love will be renew and not reduced you friendship in him must be increase not decrease and lastly your trust in him must continued to rise not diminishing.

ARE YOU AFTER WHAT HE DRIVE OR WHAT DRIVE HIM
If the main reason you like him and want ask him out his because of what he drive and not what drive him then you are inn for serious trouble, a virtues lady must know when her man to be is really a man enough or those one of boys out there think they are man. When all is fond of seen it all the time is "my latest wristwatches, my latest T-shirt and my latest car" and that is what make you crazy about him and you dreaming of becoming his future wife then i will like to inform you that you are digging grave for your corpse, because sooner or later his latest wrist watch is going to become old ,his latest shirt is going to become rag and his latest car is still going to become old and if par adventure you later marry him, his love for you will never stop him from continued to buy latest things that are in vogue and you going to be  suffer for it because he will never see it as his duty to provide shelter for you and your children and all that will occupied is mind is latest this and latest that and he will make sure he buy it at the expense of his family. But on the other hand if you are attract to him by what drive him like he's very hardworking caring gentle and above all he was so concern about the future than the present, such men do have a big dream and visions and it take a virtue lady that have similar vision to recognize such men and with that they are going to achieve greater things together. It must be what he's after and not what after him if he's a type of person that do borrow just to buy latest material things in vogue pls do not go for him.

DOES HE STAND FOR SOMETHING OR NOTHING
If you crush is the type of person that stand for nothing he's going to fall for everything and you don't even need any prophets to tell you that you don't need such men in your live .
Those guy that doesn't have a particular job, he does not go to school neither he learn any art work all he just know to do his for him wake up in the morning and get dress up just to go and seat in one corner of the street to hail the passer by so that they will give him a token and that is what he live on and you are crushing on that type of person my dear do not be surprise if you die of hunger in nearest future OR  are you a lady that have crush on type of man that only have jobs when election is coming up and they were use him as a political thug and because his godfather have giving him a small car with some change in his pocket and you fall for that prey that he has everything and know  influential people, I'm to tell you that  its you and nobody else that is going to suffer for your stupidity. When ever you are crushing on someone it must be of an independent person that works towards of achieving greatness in live. I'm not saying that man must have everything for now but make sure its someone that is working either a civil servant or self employed all his efforts might not yield any result for now but make sure he's working towards a brighter futures so that you won't regret in  nearest future.

DOES HE BELIEVED GOD OR BELIEVED IN GOD
There are two different things up there, those your man believed God or believed in God.
Believed in God means he just believe in God existence and not more such set people only remember to pray to God when they were in problem, they only go to church on rarely occasions and when they do so its because of their personal gains either to go meet up with their favourite artist that is coming up or because they want to go fix their eyes on ladies. In so many occasions their believed is only base on their strength and their qualification so they never believed in personal relationship with God. On the other hand those who believed God believed that without him they can do nothing they believe its by grace not by greatness, its by mercy not by merit. So everything they do or they become they own it to God such men don't take anything for granted even at point of chosen their life partner they do consult God before they do so, this type of men never relent in become a good example in their community where they live.
BONUS; Saying you have to voice out or dying in silence is not mean that you should be proposed to every tom and dick you meet you must set your standard and never act too desperate.
In such occasions you find your crush and you have the courage to take the bold step to ask him out NEVER because of that present yourself too cheap and don't stoop so low to accept every offer he proposed to you either positive or negative for instant if you are such that believe in no sex until marriage (which I encourage people to do) and he wanted you to indulge in pre marital sex because you are the one that proposed to him, my dear do stand your ground if he need you and surely meant for you he's going to wait for you and above all make God the first and last as your consultant if you are convince that is him then proceed by telling your spiritual leader then do some background finding about him and his family with all these and you are still convince that he's the one my dear readers please do go for him.
DON'T DIE IN SILENCE because if you fail to take the step now you might regret it later, so do go for what you want because culture is not going to live with you in future neither the families nor the community so don't let all this thing/people derives you of your joy by not take the bold step today.
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Written by AYEDERO OLAYEMI
©CoachFlowey

Ability to move on

When I started using Biro in my primary school,
and I made a mistake, I would try hard to erase it.
Sometimes I would use chalk, but later it would
reappear. So I began to use saliva, it worked only
to leave holes in my book. My teachers then used
to beat me for being outrageously dirty. But all I
tried to do was cover my errors. One day, a kind
hearted teacher who loved me so much called me
aside.
"Bobo, anytime you make a mistake, just cross it
and move on. Trying to erase it would only
damage your book".
"But, I don't want people to see my mistake and
laugh at me", I protested.
"Trying to erase it will make more people know
about your mess, and the stigma is for life"
Have you made a mistake, cross it and move on.
Don't try to create more irredeemable errors by
trying within your power to erase it, because
Mistake is bound to happened but the ability,
strength and power to cross it and move on
will definitely differentiate you from failure

Nothing wrong with the seed

NOTHING WRONG WITH THE SEED.
prov.8:14,ezek.18:2
Nothing wrong with the seed,check the ground you are sowing seed to: meaning there is nothing wrong with word of God will do hear  everyday but when there is no result check yourself and search your heart,do you prepare for his blessing
The main reason why some people are being bless everyday and some people can't even show forth result for their dedication to God work is not because God hate them or he didn't have plan for them ? No is just that majority of Christian nowadays are just church goers and do not have a pure heart to receive his blessing.
if you are a Christian and you are still carrying the mentality of generational curse, you still have a problems. If you are yet to be born again generational curse may affect you.
But if you are born again,generational curse can no longer have effect on remember what bible say IF YOU ARE IN CHRIST YOU ARE A NEW CREATURE AND OLD THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY ALL THINGS BECOME NEW. Happy Sunday to you all.

The 3C's of life

         THE 3C's OF LIFE
In speaker sam book title keep simple keep it smart, he talk about 3C's of life which are CHANGE,CHANCE and CHOICE. well today in this my article I want to explain what each of them means and how they can make you and vice versa.

CHANGE: there is a quote that say "cause a change and lead accept change and live resist change and die"
what this imply is you have to make a change in your environment in your neighborhood and in the state also. You don't have to wait for someone to create a change, think out of the box create the change you want that is the only way to lead in every aspect of your live,if you wait for others to do it, you will only going to become their subordinate because that will be the only way to survive and if you refuse to follow change then you're gone.

Cause the change and lead your generation accept the change and survive resist change and die because whether you like it not change is the only constant thing in life.
If dangote have not make change he must have be in someone company as surbordnate, if mike adenuga have not make change probably he would have just be one of share holder in another telecommunication company sharing his idea for other just for a penny, if otedola have not make a change it might have be one of the manager in one of the leading oil companies and so many if's.
So dear reader get out of your comfort zone and cause the change you want.

CHANCE: like a quote also say "opportunity come but once" like wise chances, once chance present itself once and you fail to grab it you can't have that chance again but the good news is that different chance always present its self to us on daily basis it now left for us to make use of it or let it waste away.

Some even ask what are the chances or how can we recoginesd chances when we see one. Chances are opportunities that present itself for us every day like opportunities to be a leader teacher advocator instructor etc how ever to recognised chance when you see one is to be aware of what is lack in your immediate environment to be conscious of what your community need and you can provide for them with charges.

There is this one man name chukwu emeka by name after the civil war ended that left  many Nigerians homeless especially the Igbo's (no insult intended) this man will left Enugu for Lagos to buy salt in large quantity and return back to Enugu to sell it for them and under few day he has sold it off, do you know why?
It is because he was conscious of his environment and he know what they lack and what they can't do without in a day, he know they need a lot of materials things like clothes but he was able to discovered what is most important things at that time..
So what I my saying is to discovered what your community lack and find out what is urgent among it all.

Are you living in a crowded area with a lot of children you can start a coaching centre there, are you a computer guru you can start a computer repair business you don't even need huge capital all you just need is to create awareness.
Don't wait for chances create one by yourself, because if mark zukerberg wait for chance you and I won't have the opportunity to connect to our old lost friends on his Facebook he created and if jumia owner have wait for chance we might as well  not have the luxurious to buy phones and other electrical gadget  online. Mind you its only people that take the risk that do go far in life take risk of creating a chance today it might not pay off now but sonner or later you will reap bountiful from it if you stay focus and determined.

CHOICE: with all said above it is a choice weather you want to take the steps successful people take or otherotherwise, it is a choice to live right and it's a choice to be successful like a quote that say
" the choice you make can either made you or destroyed you"
its a choice weather you want to serve devil or God.
Are you still a student and you are looking for quick money without working or you are the one that do not want to read but want to have excellent result its a choice but mind you as you lay your bed that is how you are going to laid on it.

Obama made choice that is going to become America president and he won despite all challeges, Nelson Mandela made a choice that is going to set his people free even if it involve spending some yes behind bar and he achieve it. president Mohammed bhuari became civilian president of Nigeria after fourth attempt because he has choose to be associated with successful people and refuse to be call failure and Dora akuyili became most out standing performance in the history of Nigeria NAFDAC despite all odd against her just because she made the choice to help to flush out all bad drug in the market.
My dear reader's it will be your choice to become future obama or his cook it will be a choice to become next mike adenuga or his security man it is also a choice to be next bill gates or one of the user of his product, it will be your choice to be the next African richest person or one of his reader and finally it will be your choice to be the next celebrated person or his fans.
There is not excuse for you not to succeed in life because the only person that can stop you is yourself. So brothers and sisters, uncle and aunt, neiece and nephew made the CHOICE today to create the CHANCE and cause the CHANGE to be the next celebrated person globally.
      BY
AYEDERO OLAYEMI (coachFlowey)
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Don't feel inferior

If what you are doing presently  doesn't challenge you, then it  won't change you

Remember no one can make you feel inferior not even devil without your consent.

Nothing great has ever been achieved except by those who dared to believe that something inside them was superior to circumstances.

Act of communication and forgiveness is a way to move forward

Lot of problems would never be problems if we could learn to talk to each other instead of about each other. Learn the act of communication.

People can be divided into three groups: those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened. Which one are you.

Never hold on to your past it will effect your present and prevent you from moving toward your future. Learn the act of forgiveness, forgive yourself and others that have wrong you in the past so that you can move forwards.

JESUS model of prayer

                   THE RIGHT WAY TO PRAY TO GOD.
Many of us pray in a wrong way that is why our prayer are not being answered. Next time when you want to pray,should be with a sincere heart and not a selfish payer. So a sincerity prayers s should be base on facts.
And FACTS means

F- Faith: the bible say without faith we can't receive from God.

A- Adoration: always adore him all the time for his mercy over your live.

C- Confession: confess your sin to him and he will forgive you in as much you have forgive those who trespass against you.

T- Thanksgiving: give thanks always for his goodness and mercy over your life.

S- Supplication: supplication means to make your request know to him. Ask him all you want and he's able to do more than and above you could ask of him.

To make your prayer request come to him first and for most have FAITH then ADORE him proceed to CONFESS your sin, thereafter THANKS him for he as done for you without collecting a penny from you. You can now make your request know to him and he will surely help you out.

Success is achieve by ordinary people

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

Do What You Gotta Do' is a positive, inspirational song that says no matter what it is; whether you're up against challenges or trying to get your dreams and aspirations met, you should do what whatever you have to do shy of killing yourself or someone else.

I believe success is achieved by ordinary people with extraordinary determination.

Experience is the best teacher

This world is your best teacher. There is a lesson in everything. There is a lesson in each experience. Learn it and become wise. Every failure is a stepping stone to success. Every difficulty or disappointment is a trial of your faith. Every unpleasant incident or temptation is a test of your inner strength.

There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.

The one thing all famous authors, world class athletes, business tycoons, singers, actors, and celebrated achievers in any field have in common is that they all began their journeys when they were none of these things.

Your are the architect of your life

Good morning people out there i was force out of my hub to make this observation, and what is it?

If you don't make it in life is not because the witch or wizard neither because the curse you inherited from your father house or your mother house as matter of fact the economic of the country has nothing to do with your failure ,even friends and families will not share in your woes because non of them is the architect of your failure but yourself.

Take a look at words of wisdom you do hear from various speakers everyday then scroll up again and check quote of knowledge share by coach flowey everyday you will see that its almost the same things  teach or preach almost the same things everyday talking about self determination and self reliance and talking about trying to do something new everyday.

If this this  speakers that are far from each other could be sharing the same words of knowledge everyday with you without informed each other this is what I want  to write about today and you can still read it everyday couple with the word of wisdom you do hear from your Church/mosque time to time yet you can't still come about how to shape your live better then I'm sorry to tell you that you  are a  nothing but a waste to your community and the nation entirely.

For your information,if you are still waiting for the president of this nation or some big rich men to come help you out from this predicament of yours you call job hunt  then permit me to tell you that you are inn for long things.

What are we saying is that get out of your shell contribute your own quota to your community, start a business with what you have ,not until you have millions of naira.  Do not always expect from someone to give you cultivate the habit of given. Always read book that will add value to your live listen to good music that will make your vision to be clear not the one that will make your dream and vision blur and watch a good oriented program on the TV not only dance all and above all trust in your God and all road to success will be open unto you.
Thanks you all for reading this pieces of mine
To make Nigeria better it begin with you and I .
Writing by Ayedero Olayemi ( coachFlowey)
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We must believe we can

When the sun is shining I can do anything; no mountain is too high, no trouble too difficult to overcome.

We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained.

The only thing that stands between you and your dream is the will to try and the belief that it is actually possible.

Love and respect yourself

Love yourself, respect yourself. Never sell yourself short. Believe in yourself regardless of what other people think. You can accomplish anything, absolutely anything, if you set your mind to it.

Only those who have learned the power of sincere and selfless contribution experience life's deepest joy: true fulfillment.

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.

Something worth doing is worth doing well

I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do.

It's not enough to be busy; so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about?,Is it productive ?

Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. Just make sure you are doing something worthy of your time spent.

Quote of the day

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars.

To bear defeat with dignity, to accept criticism with poise, to receive honors with humility -- these are marks of maturity and graciousness.

If you're trying to achieve, there will be road blocks. I've had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. Good morning sir/ma, blessed weekend to you all.

Quote pf the day

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.

When someone steals another's clothes, we call them a thief. Should we not give the same name to one who could clothe the naked and does not? The bread in your cupboard belongs to the hungry; the coat unused in your closet belongs to the one who needs it; the shoes rotting in your closet belong to the one who has no shoes; the money which you hoard up belongs to the poor.

You can have everything you want in life if you just help enough people get what they want in life.

Quote of the day

When life knocks you down, try to land on your back. Because if you can look up, you can get up.
Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!
So don't give up of your dream you can achieve it if you can dream it.

Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. Come from poor background won't make you poor unless you choose to be.

Quote of the day

We cannot seek achievement for ourselves and forget about progress and prosperity for our community...Our ambitions must be broad enough to include the aspirations and needs of others, for their sakes and for our own.

If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten. Change your way of do things as usual.

Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known.
All you need is to explored you're community and make out something big out of ordinary.

Quote

To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars. Every challenges in life has its own advantage.

Remember that when you leave this earth, you can take with you nothing that you have received-only what you have given: a full heart enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice and courage.

Confidence in your God

CONFIDENCE IN YOUR GOD
God want you to face today,tomorrow and your future with confidence that the future is bright Christianity is a way of life not a religion You have to understand what Christ has come to do here on earth before you can enjoy his blessing fully you have to be sure of your stand with him (Christ) before you enjoy him Going to church every day without faith is like a farmer going to farm without farm tools so what is the essence of going to Church when you don't even have faith in the person you want to go and meet Stop trusting people because they will continued to disappoint you rather put your trust on God completely

Nigerian youth wake up

Originally written by Professor Isa.

Copied and pasted

MY DEAR NIGERIAN YOUTHS.

I am very angry and that is why I am addressing
you. You are the source of my anger and I want to vent my spleen- maybe not at you directly- but at the arrogance of your ignorance. Of all
nations of the world, you are to be most pitied.

Do you still wonder what you have done?
You don’t have an Ivy League education but
with the little below-standard education you got, all you could do with it is to write a
petition against someone with the benefit of an Ivy League education.

You can’t even run your personal economy as you’re almost always and perpetually broke yet you arrogate to yourself superior knowledge about the nation’s economy.

You sit in front of a computer and rant all day through social media but with every click, you make money - not for yourself - but for Mark
Zuckerberg (Facebook).

With every megabyte of data you spend complaining and maligning, you make
stupendous bucks for Etisalat, Glo and Airtel.

Over the next two years, the number of Nigerian millionaires will jump by 47% but most likely you will not be among because you are
too busy whining and complaining. And yet
about 60% of Nigeria’s 170m population are
below 35 years. Oh, what a waste!
By the way, Mark Zuckerberg was 19 when he started facebook.

Africa’s youngest billionaire, Ashish Thakkar, is 31. He escaped from the
Rwandan genocide and relocated to Uganda where he started an IT business. Collin Thornton, who made his millions by fixing bad computers and setting up Dial-a-Nerd, is 35.

Adam Horowitz, an 18-year-old entrepreneur,
started 30 websites in 3 years before he became successful.
The only thing you have ever started is an online petition.

Have you heard of Jason Njoku?
He’s 33 and the founder of Iroko TV. He received $8m investment into his company just a few years ago. What he does? Sharing the same Nollywood films that you spend hours to watch online. He didn’t just hang around waiting
for Buhari to make something happen or
blaming Jonathan for not making anything
happen.

Kamal Budhabhatti was deported from Kenya but while on the flight, he thought of the opportunities in Kenya. He found his way back after 6 months and today his company is valued at $30m. He’s 36.

Have you heard of Chinedu Echeruo? Apple just paid $1b for his app. He’s a Nigerian like you and all he did was attempt to fix a problem. But for you, the only thing you attempt to fix are your nails- and your hairdo! Chinedu moved to New York in 1995 and found it difficult to navigate the city with ease so he developed HopStop to fix the problem. Stop listing all the problems - we know them already but what are you doing about them?

-Awolowo was 37,  Akintola was 36, Ahmadu Bello was 36, Tafawa Balewa was 34, Okotie-Eboh was 27 and Enahoro was 27 at the time of independence of Nigeria.

In 1966, the first coup was led by Kaduna Nzeogwu (29) and stopped by Murtala Mohammed (28),
TY Danjuma (28),
IBB (25), Sanni Abacha (23) and Shehu Yaradua (23).

It brought in Yakubu Gowon as Head of State at 32 and Olusegun Obasanjo at 29.

You are in your 40s and you still sag your trousers.
Of course you know Linda Ikeji. You’ve spent hundreds of hours on her blog laughing and
commenting while she smiles her way to the bank. She’s just built a house for her father in the village- just by you clicking on her gossip and sharing.

Your day is not complete without a stop by at her blog. She was as broke as you are but she turned a hobby into a business. Are you
that void of understanding?

You think those politicians have any regard for you?

That is why I referred to the arrogance of
your ignorance at the beginning of this diatribe.
-You have a false estimation of yourself. You have an over bloated ego.
-You are only as good
as an election ticket - pure and simple.
-You are only good to used and discarded like a used ballot paper. Who keeps a used ballot paper anyway?

That is why they only remember you every four years. You are like a menstrual pad that is only useful during the menstrual period. Are you hurt? Okay, let me help you.

Have you heard of Professor Olusola Adeyeye before?
He is a Senator of the Federal Republic at the moment. But before he became a Senator, he was popular on facebook. Even more popular than so many latter day facebookivists. I was one of his many followers. He put up posts after posts and pander to populist thinking. Then he was elected and one of the first things he did was to deactivate his facebook account. Yes, you read me right. Deactivate.

How many times do
you still see El-Rufai’s tweets again? No longer regular? That is how it will dwindle until he disappears totally.

I’m not limiting it to the aforementioned alone and this is not about any party. They are all the same.
Yet you falsely believe your future is in the hands of one politician. You will grow grey hair
with that belief. And by the time you wise up, you’re on your way to the grave- not with a life expectancy of less than 60 years in this clime.

Can you see you have wasted your time? And possibly your life? See, people have been complaining since independence. And they will still complain in 4 years. Will you be among them?

I agree with my friend who said Nigerian youth need mental detoxification. And maybe I should add that you need a brain transplant. Let me give you another example. I’ve watched you try to pull some people down when you don’t like their face- or their comments. You report them to facebook. And they get pulled down.
Momentarily. Just momentarily.
Do you know why? Facebook knows those
people draw traffic. Their posts get huge numbers of comments. And with every comment and click, someone is making money. Will you allow your best customers to leave? That is why though facebook pulled down Adeyinka Grandson’s page, he was given a facebook fan page in return. Yes, a fan page. You need to get
a job and you need to get a life. There is life away from facebook or social media.
If you’re not making money from social media and you sleep on it, you’re merely existing- you’re not living. I have seen some of you take
selfish and pose in all manner of ways as you paste your photos on social media. Are you a
photographer or are you selling something that we don’t know? You’re unemployed because you’re unemployable. You don’t have skills.
Sorry, the major skill you have is that of pointing out the problems and debating about them. That’s a no brainer! You can’t even diagnose the problems properly.

You think Ngozi Okonjo- Iweala is your problem? You are a self-inflicted problem. You are afflicted with yourself and by yourself. If you’re looking for the reason why you are the way, you are - look no further than your mirror. Instead of occupying Nigeria, you should occupy your brain. The only witch chasing you from your village is you. It’s time to stop bewitching yourself.

Stop whining about lack of electricity or fuel. Do something about it. Every adversity has a
seed of opportunity embedded in it.

-Create something. Invent something. Start something.
Read up a book. Write a book. Take advantage of the present situation.

Nigeria is a huge market. Nigeria is a virgin market. Waiting for you. Unleash yourself. Release your passion. Follow your potential. Invent your way to prosperity. Stop waiting for government,  government only needs you when they need your taxes. Don’t depend on welfare.

People who depend on welfare don’t fare well. You think you lack capital? No, the problem is not lack of capital but lack of ideas. Just today,
two men stepped into my wife’s office selling
the new portraits of Buhari and Osinbajo.

That’s someone grabbing an opportunity and seizing the moment. I have a friend who started out by offering after-school lessons to kids on her street- now she has a school.

I know a lady who was indigent and self-sponsored on campus. Each night, she soaked beans and made ‘moin-moin’ in the morning for
sale on campus. I bought out of the moin moin as well as some other students and that was how she paid her way through University.

Not prostitution. Have you heard of Ayodeji
Megbope? She started her business with the last N1,000 she had on her.
Enough said.

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3 They know what they want and how to get it : successful people know what they want right from day one they they have choose the path they are following and the truth is the more they follow the right path the more clear their mission and vision are. No matter the obstacle they face on the way they never quite because they know what they want and how to get it, is not to quite on their way to success. So if you want to succeed in life you should know what you want and how to get it.

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2.They See Success as a must not an option: yea you heard me right, successful people don't give their background nor their environment either community or the situation they are passing through the choice to ask them whether they want to succeed or not its a must not and option. So until the youth of this generation discovered success as a must not an option before they can reach the peak of their career. You don't ask your problems or your background whether it want you to move forward because the choice is yours either to be the victims of the situation or the victors

How to succeed in life

Successful people do not have two head they only have one head as matter of fact majority of them are not born with
silver spoon not even wooden spoon and yet they still succeed despite all odd against them. The surprising truth is that some of them don't even have the opportunity of being educated in higher institution yet they make it to the top. Do you know why?: because they were determine that under no circumstances they will make it and here are some steps they take to achieve their various dream.
1. They don't wish alone but they take action: majority of youth nowadays want to be like dangote, otedola, adenuga etc yet they where not taking any step in achieving their dream they have forget the quote that say "if wishes were horse begger will ride". the different between you and the people in the ruling class is they take action to accomplish their wishes

Relationship tips

Relationship is for talking and not for smoothing
Purpose before partner
Sex will not make that man stay
sex is transfer of spirit Sex involved of spirit body and soul
If you loose somebody, you have loose something but you if you loose God you have loose everything

Quote of the day

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

Until I let go of what I am, I cant become what I'm supposed to be.
Good morning happy weekends

Motivational Quote

: When you are in bright light. Everyone Will Follow you But when you are in darkness even your own shadow will not follow you.

: Maturity is not when we start speaking big things. Its when we start understanding small things.

Physical strength is measured by what we can carry  and inner strength by what we can bear.

Stop thinking in terms of limitations and start thinking in terms of possibilities.

Live  everyday of your life like its the last day on earth.

Always remember it must be dark before the star can appeared, so don't give up on your dream u're at your edge of breakthrough. CoachFlowey

Knowing is not enough
We must apply
Willing is not enough, we must do

SUCCESS is not final,FAILURE is not fatal
Its the courage to continues that count.

To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice your gift. Don't give half give all your best and you will succeed. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

Your future is created by what you do today not tomorrow's . coachFlowey

Never blame anyone in your life
Good people gives you happiness
Bad people give you experience
Worst people gives you lesson and
Best people gives you memories

Dream is not what you see in sleep but something that didn't allowed you to sleep. Dream high today,its well with you. CoachFlowey

ABILITY is what you are capable of doing
MOTIVATION determine what you do
ATTITUDES determine how you will do it.

When you want to succeed as much you want to breathe that is when you will be successful.

To succeed we must believe WE CAN.

If nobody hates you, you are doing something boring.

Can you see yourself the way others see you?

Try and fail is part of live but don't fail to try cos that is worst thing that can happen to human being. CoachFlowey

You don't have be great to start your journey of breakthrough and progress,but you have to start from somewhere to be great. CoachFlowey

It does not matter where you are now but make sure you either walking or running ,because success does not come to does who stay idle always but only wish for good things to happen. CoachFlowey

You can't know everything in this life but the little you ever know make sure you know it very well because you have to fall for something otherwise you fall for everything that come your way. CoachFlowey

When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you will have more opportunities. Dream, Wish, Make it happen. CoachFlowey

If you don`t dream big, there`s no use of dreaming. If you don`t have faith, there`s nothing worth believing. CoachFlowey

When you judge someone else, it doesn't define who they are but define who you really are....stop judging peoples in your live it will only drag you backward instead think how they can be useful even in their state of stupidity. CoachFlowey

Learn to live without your worries because God will take care of everything: just trust,obey and have faith. CoachFlowey

Stand for what you believe in ,even if it means you're standing alone: the only way to succeed in the race of live is to guard,work and stay focus in what you believe in. CoachFlowey

When the mirror of Life gets dirty with the fog of reality, just try to wipe it with your faith in GOD, You will see the clear reflection of your dreams once again!

There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. CoachFlowey

Remember the five simple rules to be happy, Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

Do you know that you can not change yesterday neither can you predict tomorrow but you are alive today: so therefore live life today like yesterday didn't happened nor tomorrow exist by living right with your smile,because your smile is powerful tool to put enemy in confusion state. CoachFlowey

"We have to recognize that there cannot be
relationships unless there is commitment, unless
there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience,
persistence."

"Set the standard! Stop expecting others to
show you love, acceptance, commitment, &
respect when you don't even show that to
yourself." CoachFlowey

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in
anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or
a hobby."

Obstacles can’t stop you, problems can’t stop you, most of all, other people can’t stop you. The only one who can stops you is yourself. CoachFlowey

Never try to go back and repair the past which is impossible. But be prepared to construct the future which is possible. CoachFlowey

The most painful things is losing who you are in the process of loving someone too much. Care for someone today but do not over do it. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

: Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. So dear reader give God a GRATITUDE today not an ATTITUDE. CoachFlowey

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my family,friends and relative.

If you are not willing to learn, No one can help you. If you are determined to learn, No one can stop you, the choice is yours.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful.  don't let your problems overwhelming you, stand tall for your dream and be focus. CoachFlowey

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. Meaning you can't loose anything by impact lives positively, always put in mind that giver never lack. Contribute your own quota to your community today.

Sometimes the best revenge is moving forward and being happy despite the people that try to drag you down. Don't give up.

You don’t have to watch what you say if you watch what you think. So essence think before you talk. CoachFlowey

People might say you are not normal but if you ask me normal isn’t that much fun. being yourself and being abnormal is Awesome, don’t change who you really are.

You are not poor because you don’t have money. You are poor if you don’t have a dream. CoachFlowey

If you born poor it’s not your mistake but if you die poor it’s your mistake.

Usually the people who degrade others are self conscious about themselves. They want to feel empowerment over you & see you get in your feelings. Don’t let them.

When you pray and no result to show for it,don't give up God has not forget you: He's only preparing you for greater things. CoachFlowey

Never allowed your yesterday result affect today's own because new things are for new day.

Living up to a century without making impact is like dying at infant there is no difference : To live an impact full live make sure you make someone smile today. CoachFlowey

Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there’s dream, there is hope and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living. CoachFlowey

: Success seems to be connected with action. Successful men keep moving. They make mistakes but they do not quit.

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold and your health is wealth. Good morning.

If an egg is broken by outside force, life ends, if broken by inside force, life begins. Great things always begin from inside.

Life is like the ocean. It can be calm and still or rough and rigid but in the end, it is always beautiful.

Sometimes life just seems like chapters. Some good, some bad, but all come together to create the story of our lives.

The choice you made as a youth will determined your future, whether you choose rights or wrong.

You can not be passive. A YES to God is NO to devil likewise A NO to God is automatically yes to devil: just know that you can not be passive you either belong to God or devil. CoachFlowey

Dreams are for older people while vision are for young ,because dream are for past while visions are for futures : so therefore stop dreaming and started acting towards your vision,future and your purpose in life. CoachFlowey

Never let the sun go down on your anger. You might not get the light of a new day to say I am sorry.

Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself.

To talk without thinking first is just like to shoot without aiming...so always think before you talk. Good morning all.

Being single is not a big deal because sooner or later you will find your true love. Just be a little more patient.

Don’t prioritize your friends over your family. Friends come and go but your family will be with you even when you’ve fallen.

Good relationships are like trees. They provide shade to us shade in all situations of life. Try to involve yourself good relationship today because it also prolong live span.

Never allowed your success to get to your head;it will only bring pride that will lead to your fall.
Never allowed your failure to get into your heart; it will only bring sorrow which lead to depressions. CoachFlowey

Don't give devil your attention otherwise he's going to give you his directions, Rather stay focus to your creator and be contended. CoachFlowey

Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great. Weak men wait for opportunities; strong men make them.

The beauty of life is, while we can’t undo what is done, but we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change.

God gives answer in 3 ways. It says Yes I gives u what u want, it says wait and i will gives u something better, it says wait a little longer and I will  gives u the Best! CoachFlowey

Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful. CoachFlowey

Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you’re going to do now and do it.

Try to learn something about everything and everything about something.

Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people, one who can trust and one who can understand.

Destiny is for losers. It`s just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen.

You are living a fake live, if you can not trust your heavenly father but you can trust your earthly father's. CoachFlowey

You will only continue to complicate matter,if you still have problems to trust God completely. CoachFlowey

Don’t let anyone’s ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be. CoachFlowey

It doesn't matter how big you succeed in life, its how humble you are in person that matters.

Start by doing whats necessary, then do whats possible and suddenly you are doing impossible.

When the past calls, let it go to voicemail.. it`s got nothing new to say.

You can never make the same mistake twice, because the second time you make it, its not a mistake, its a choice..

Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no LOVE. Without trust there is no reason to continue.

The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.

Leadership is not a skill, it is a talent we appreciate how you always give your best and inspire us to do the same.

The best leader is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it.

The recipe of friendship: 1 cup of sharing. 2 cups of caring. 3 cups of forgiveness & hugs. Mix all of these together to make friends 4ever.

Friends in your life are like the pillars on your front porch. Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you. Sometimes it’s just enough to know they are standing by.

Never take a shortcut in life, take the long route because you pick up more experiences on the way.

Great personality will always make you more attractive than someone who only has a great face.

Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you” that would suffice.

To God be the glory we are the light of the world, God said he will have mercy on those who I'll have mercy on. I congratulate you you are one of them. CoachFlowey

Say thank you Almighty God;because he said he's going to protect you through out  this year and he fulfil his promise despite your unfaithful to him. CoachFlowey

Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there’s love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.

Life is like driving a car. It’s okay to look behind sometimes but keep looking straight because life’s goes on.

Your life doesn’t get better by chance, It gets better by CHANGE.

Life is like race between cat & rat. But rat mostly wins because cat runs for food rat runs for life. Always remember purpose is more important then need.

You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind. Because from mind come the issues of life. CoachFlowey

We never get what we want, We never want what we get, We never have what we like, We never like what we have. Just because we are never satisfy and that is what make our lives not to be stable.. The secret is be CONTENTED.

Alter your attitude and you can alter your life. Good talent or skill without good attitude is like a beautiful lady without husband. CoachFlowey

Run with your dreams and follow your passions. Make things happen. Change courses. This will lead you to your destiny. CoachFlowey

Don`t run from your fears, when they catch up with you, you`ill be too tired to fight. Rather face it now and overcome it. CoachFlowey

Our dreams inspire us to live life to the fullest, our sorrows guide us in learning & accepting who we are, wisdom is what we achieve from experiencing both.

You can choose your behavior or action but people  choose the consequence .

An arrow may fly through the air and and leave no trace but an ill thought leave a trace like a serpent. So always guide your heart.
If a person seems wicked, do not cast him away. Awaken him with your words, elevate him with your deeds, repay his injury with your kindness. Do not cast him away; cast away his wickedness.

Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success
Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.

Go as far as you can see; when you get there, you'll be able to see farther. Good morning have a wonderful day ahead.

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.

And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear, but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.

Ask and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you. Don't hesitate to ask your heavenly father that things you need and he will surely grant you're heart desired.

Words have special powers. The power to create smiles or frowns. The power to generate laughs or tears. The power to lift up or put down. The power to motivate or de-motivate. The power to teach good or evil. The power to express love or hate. The power to give or take. The power to heal or harm. Choose your words carefully.

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

You must be the change you wish to see in the world
You can't continued doing nothing and expect change in your community.
#to make Nigeria better it begins with you
#its our collectively job,don't stay idle

Motivational Quote

: When you are in bright light. Everyone Will Follow you But when you are in darkness even your own shadow will not follow you.

: Maturity is not when we start speaking big things. Its when we start understanding small things.

Physical strength is measured by what we can carry  and inner strength by what we can bear.

Stop thinking in terms of limitations and start thinking in terms of possibilities.

Live  everyday of your life like its the last day on earth.

Always remember it must be dark before the star can appeared, so don't give up on your dream u're at your edge of breakthrough. CoachFlowey

Knowing is not enough
We must apply
Willing is not enough, we must do

SUCCESS is not final,FAILURE is not fatal
Its the courage to continues that count.

To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice your gift. Don't give half give all your best and you will succeed. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

Your future is created by what you do today not tomorrow's . coachFlowey

Never blame anyone in your life
Good people gives you happiness
Bad people give you experience
Worst people gives you lesson and
Best people gives you memories

Dream is not what you see in sleep but something that didn't allowed you to sleep. Dream high today,its well with you. CoachFlowey

ABILITY is what you are capable of doing
MOTIVATION determine what you do
ATTITUDES determine how you will do it.

When you want to succeed as much you want to breathe that is when you will be successful.

To succeed we must believe WE CAN.

If nobody hates you, you are doing something boring.

Can you see yourself the way others see you?

Try and fail is part of live but don't fail to try cos that is worst thing that can happen to human being. CoachFlowey

You don't have be great to start your journey of breakthrough and progress,but you have to start from somewhere to be great. CoachFlowey

It does not matter where you are now but make sure you either walking or running ,because success does not come to does who stay idle always but only wish for good things to happen. CoachFlowey

You can't know everything in this life but the little you ever know make sure you know it very well because you have to fall for something otherwise you fall for everything that come your way. CoachFlowey

When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you will have more opportunities. Dream, Wish, Make it happen. CoachFlowey

If you don`t dream big, there`s no use of dreaming. If you don`t have faith, there`s nothing worth believing. CoachFlowey

When you judge someone else, it doesn't define who they are but define who you really are....stop judging peoples in your live it will only drag you backward instead think how they can be useful even in their state of stupidity. CoachFlowey

Learn to live without your worries because God will take care of everything: just trust,obey and have faith. CoachFlowey

Stand for what you believe in ,even if it means you're standing alone: the only way to succeed in the race of live is to guard,work and stay focus in what you believe in. CoachFlowey

When the mirror of Life gets dirty with the fog of reality, just try to wipe it with your faith in GOD, You will see the clear reflection of your dreams once again!

There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. CoachFlowey

Remember the five simple rules to be happy, Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

Do you know that you can not change yesterday neither can you predict tomorrow but you are alive today: so therefore live life today like yesterday didn't happened nor tomorrow exist by living right with your smile,because your smile is powerful tool to put enemy in confusion state. CoachFlowey

"We have to recognize that there cannot be
relationships unless there is commitment, unless
there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience,
persistence."

"Set the standard! Stop expecting others to
show you love, acceptance, commitment, &
respect when you don't even show that to
yourself." CoachFlowey

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in
anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or
a hobby."

Obstacles can’t stop you, problems can’t stop you, most of all, other people can’t stop you. The only one who can stops you is yourself. CoachFlowey

Never try to go back and repair the past which is impossible. But be prepared to construct the future which is possible. CoachFlowey

The most painful things is losing who you are in the process of loving someone too much. Care for someone today but do not over do it. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

: Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. So dear reader give God a GRATITUDE today not an ATTITUDE. CoachFlowey

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my family,friends and relative.

If you are not willing to learn, No one can help you. If you are determined to learn, No one can stop you, the choice is yours.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful.  don't let your problems overwhelming you, stand tall for your dream and be focus. CoachFlowey

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. Meaning you can't loose anything by impact lives positively, always put in mind that giver never lack. Contribute your own quota to your community today.

Sometimes the best revenge is moving forward and being happy despite the people that try to drag you down. Don't give up.

You don’t have to watch what you say if you watch what you think. So essence think before you talk. CoachFlowey

People might say you are not normal but if you ask me normal isn’t that much fun. being yourself and being abnormal is Awesome, don’t change who you really are.

You are not poor because you don’t have money. You are poor if you don’t have a dream. CoachFlowey

If you born poor it’s not your mistake but if you die poor it’s your mistake.

Usually the people who degrade others are self conscious about themselves. They want to feel empowerment over you & see you get in your feelings. Don’t let them.

When you pray and no result to show for it,don't give up God has not forget you: He's only preparing you for greater things. CoachFlowey

Never allowed your yesterday result affect today's own because new things are for new day.

Living up to a century without making impact is like dying at infant there is no difference : To live an impact full live make sure you make someone smile today. CoachFlowey

Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there’s dream, there is hope and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living. CoachFlowey

: Success seems to be connected with action. Successful men keep moving. They make mistakes but they do not quit.

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold and your health is wealth. Good morning.

If an egg is broken by outside force, life ends, if broken by inside force, life begins. Great things always begin from inside.

Life is like the ocean. It can be calm and still or rough and rigid but in the end, it is always beautiful.

Sometimes life just seems like chapters. Some good, some bad, but all come together to create the story of our lives.

The choice you made as a youth will determined your future, whether you choose rights or wrong.

You can not be passive. A YES to God is NO to devil likewise A NO to God is automatically yes to devil: just know that you can not be passive you either belong to God or devil. CoachFlowey

Dreams are for older people while vision are for young ,because dream are for past while visions are for futures : so therefore stop dreaming and started acting towards your vision,future and your purpose in life. CoachFlowey

Never let the sun go down on your anger. You might not get the light of a new day to say I am sorry.

Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself.

To talk without thinking first is just like to shoot without aiming...so always think before you talk. Good morning all.

Being single is not a big deal because sooner or later you will find your true love. Just be a little more patient.

Don’t prioritize your friends over your family. Friends come and go but your family will be with you even when you’ve fallen.

Good relationships are like trees. They provide shade to us shade in all situations of life. Try to involve yourself good relationship today because it also prolong live span.

Never allowed your success to get to your head;it will only bring pride that will lead to your fall.
Never allowed your failure to get into your heart; it will only bring sorrow which lead to depressions. CoachFlowey

Don't give devil your attention otherwise he's going to give you his directions, Rather stay focus to your creator and be contended. CoachFlowey

Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great. Weak men wait for opportunities; strong men make them.

The beauty of life is, while we can’t undo what is done, but we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change.

God gives answer in 3 ways. It says Yes I gives u what u want, it says wait and i will gives u something better, it says wait a little longer and I will  gives u the Best! CoachFlowey

Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful. CoachFlowey

Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you’re going to do now and do it.

Try to learn something about everything and everything about something.

Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people, one who can trust and one who can understand.

Destiny is for losers. It`s just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen.

You are living a fake live, if you can not trust your heavenly father but you can trust your earthly father's. CoachFlowey

You will only continue to complicate matter,if you still have problems to trust God completely. CoachFlowey

Don’t let anyone’s ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be. CoachFlowey

It doesn't matter how big you succeed in life, its how humble you are in person that matters.

Start by doing whats necessary, then do whats possible and suddenly you are doing impossible.

When the past calls, let it go to voicemail.. it`s got nothing new to say.

You can never make the same mistake twice, because the second time you make it, its not a mistake, its a choice..

Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no LOVE. Without trust there is no reason to continue.

The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.

Leadership is not a skill, it is a talent we appreciate how you always give your best and inspire us to do the same.

The best leader is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it.

The recipe of friendship: 1 cup of sharing. 2 cups of caring. 3 cups of forgiveness & hugs. Mix all of these together to make friends 4ever.

Friends in your life are like the pillars on your front porch. Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you. Sometimes it’s just enough to know they are standing by.

Never take a shortcut in life, take the long route because you pick up more experiences on the way.

Great personality will always make you more attractive than someone who only has a great face.

Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you” that would suffice.

To God be the glory we are the light of the world, God said he will have mercy on those who I'll have mercy on. I congratulate you you are one of them. CoachFlowey

Say thank you Almighty God;because he said he's going to protect you through out  this year and he fulfil his promise despite your unfaithful to him. CoachFlowey

Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there’s love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.

Life is like driving a car. It’s okay to look behind sometimes but keep looking straight because life’s goes on.

Your life doesn’t get better by chance, It gets better by CHANGE.

Life is like race between cat & rat. But rat mostly wins because cat runs for food rat runs for life. Always remember purpose is more important then need.

You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind. Because from mind come the issues of life. CoachFlowey

We never get what we want, We never want what we get, We never have what we like, We never like what we have. Just because we are never satisfy and that is what make our lives not to be stable.. The secret is be CONTENTED.

Alter your attitude and you can alter your life. Good talent or skill without good attitude is like a beautiful lady without husband. CoachFlowey

Run with your dreams and follow your passions. Make things happen. Change courses. This will lead you to your destiny. CoachFlowey

Don`t run from your fears, when they catch up with you, you`ill be too tired to fight. Rather face it now and overcome it. CoachFlowey

Our dreams inspire us to live life to the fullest, our sorrows guide us in learning & accepting who we are, wisdom is what we achieve from experiencing both.

You can choose your behavior or action but people  choose the consequence .

An arrow may fly through the air and and leave no trace but an ill thought leave a trace like a serpent. So always guide your heart.
If a person seems wicked, do not cast him away. Awaken him with your words, elevate him with your deeds, repay his injury with your kindness. Do not cast him away; cast away his wickedness.

Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success
Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.

Go as far as you can see; when you get there, you'll be able to see farther. Good morning have a wonderful day ahead.

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.

And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear, but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.

Ask and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you. Don't hesitate to ask your heavenly father that things you need and he will surely grant you're heart desired.

Words have special powers. The power to create smiles or frowns. The power to generate laughs or tears. The power to lift up or put down. The power to motivate or de-motivate. The power to teach good or evil. The power to express love or hate. The power to give or take. The power to heal or harm. Choose your words carefully.

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

You must be the change you wish to see in the world
You can't continued doing nothing and expect change in your community.
#to make Nigeria better it begins with you
#its our collectively job,don't stay idle