WRONG PHILOSOPHIES

WRONG PHILOSOPHIES

It's high time youth of this generation know that some philosophies use in the Past might no longer necessary in this present world . And if any man want to go far in life he\ she should not follow or act base on this old philosophies of life.

1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it
happened. You have a part to play in what will be in your
life, so don't leave it to chance.
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2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a
full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting
belief that positions you to settle for less and it is
a mediocre to philosophy. Those  who own bakery do not have two head they make things happened.
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3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he
refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too
late to become wise because the day you wake up
and wise up is the day you CHANGE!`
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4. *"ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL"*
```Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not
equal but that does not make any of them
valueless. Lose one and you realise that they are
all valuable. You are not even a finger, so why
look down on yourself. You are not born in a silver spoon home does not make you poor unless you choose to.
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5. *"LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY"*
```If you are below forty and believe this, I feel so
sorry for you because it means you are not yet
alive you are only exist.
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6. *"WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN"*
```Is your age coming down? Is your wisdom and
knowledge coming down? Is the price of goods
coming down? Think my friend!` why do you have negative thinking about your success? must you think of failure?
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7. *"HE WHO LAUGH LAST, LAUGHS BEST!"*
```Why laugh last when you can laugh always and
why laugh best when laughter is not a
competition. When we programmed ourselves
with these strange philosophies, they limit and
restrict us from doing what we supposed to do now. Change the way you think and talk..
You will change your world.
You have the opportunity to RECREATE YOUR
WORLD`.
©coachFlowey`

Potential wife beater

                              POTENTIAL WIFE BEATER
Lucy wake up and discovered she was in hospital bed and she began to wonder how she get there. Later in the day things begin to have meaning to her. It all started five years ago when she first meet Jake at single for eagle summit and they exchange contact. From there their relationship started, but one thing Lucy never take notice of is the way Jake was posses of her. She only thought it is because his love her for that is why he so posses of her.

And all the sign that is glaring to Lucy face then, that she take with levity hand are.
Command tone; whenever they are together back then during their courtship Jake is the commander, always dictate everything for Lucy like what clothe to were, type of functions she should attend and the kind of friend she should keep, and any time she want to resist any of the law Jake will shout on her threatens her with break up. But it's unfortunate Lucy never see anything wrong with this, to her so far he never raise his hand on her before so she ASSUMED and THOUGHT that all is well.

Movement monitored; Anytime Lucy try to go out unknown to her Jake use to monitors her movement and whenever she wanted to make call Jake would have to confirmed that is not another man she wanted to call, that is when they are still dating. still with all this Lucy never see anything wrong.
All this never matter to her because all that matter is the fact she the one and only girlfriend of his.

But today after become mrs Jake all that never count before have now become real issue in her marriage because any little argument now will surely lead to serious beating, Lucy being the receiver while Jake is the giver. And the one that lead her to the hospital bed is because her cousin called her just to hear her voice since it has being a while they see each other but it's so unfortunate that "I love you" was the last statement mr Jake heard from her wife before he descend on her until she became unconscious without confirming who she is talking to.

To you reading this are you Lucy in your current relationship and your supposed future husband is mr Jake and you still  think there is no problems or cause for alarm. May be you even think all that matter is love and since he love you and he always give you money.

You even count he's possessing of you as being having time for you.  But I will caution you to look at handwriting on the wall. Leopard can not change is spot so thinking for him that he's still going to change from that habit of command you, following you all around or harassing you either in public or private is lie from pit of hell.

Mind you a healthy relationship must not have trust issue if he can't trust you now he will never trust you. And do stop deceiving yourself by thinking there won't a better man if you drop this potential wife beater because its a matter of time before he's going to turn you to a punch bag if he has all this sign and you did not quit.

Note; love do not posses love protect, love do not command love correct, love do not kill love heal, love do not confuse love convinced, love do not destroy love build....Flowey

Marry late with a peaceful mind is far better than early marriage full of trouble and all sort of problems.... Flowey

AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Virtue lady

               MESSAGE FOR OUR LADIES
Fashion is good in fact I
support you to wear clothes that will look smart
on you but mind you any clothe that exposed your
body is not only bad but also you are exposing
your destiny.
also moderately make up is good but too much of
it will just turn you to a masquerade in woman
form.
speaking good English is good to communicate
but forming a fake ascent just to impress will not
only destroy your moral it will cause you your
destiny too.
And who told you black is not beautiful, you don't
have to bleach your skin before you can attract
good guys. as matter of fact you are bleaching
your destiny in the process because you will only
attract no future guys with your bleaching skin.
what I'm preaching is self confidence be satisfied
with your real self you are not two you're just one
and be sure that nobody can make you feel
inferior without your consent .
©coachFlowey