The Real You

                THE "YOU" INSIDE OF YOU
You are destined for success, breakthroughs, progress and greater things in life only if YOU inside of you allowed it.
Listen the truth is bitter you will have to swallow it anyway if you want to succeeded in life.

It is not the opinion of people about you or the conditions you found yourself that will determine your success but what is inside of YOU. Your background will do less or nothing neither your academic qualification will make you scale through the hurdles of life but what is inside of YOU.

D.D.D.F.A explained something about life and they are as follow.

DETERMINATION; if you are not determine to make sure the you inside comply with you outside you will be frustrated with issues of life in a short run, that is why you will have to determine within yourself that you will not quit in the part of success you have choose.

DEDICATION; even working with chevron if you are not dedicate to the work you are assigned with you will be shown the way out before you know what is happening. Dedication will make your work different from others that have been doing it for long.

DISCIPLINE; You will have to discipline the you inside to comply the real you outside if you want to go far in life because it's certain your body will surely want to to go against the necessary cross you suppose to carry before your crown.

FOCUS; Yes you hear the word focus, choosing a carear is not enough like wise gained admission into higher institution is not big deal but staying focus is the key that can change your name to success make you live in breakthrough avenue and drive achievement car.

ATTITUDE; Even if you have knowledge in all area of life but have bad character you will not move forward talk less of making it in life. Good character is like a light unto your path that will make you see ahead of others.

In all this remember the G factors which is God the father Jesus Christ the son and the comforter Holy spirit and your ways will be prosperous.
Known this the sweetest revenge ever is to show the people that thought you can't make it by succeed in all ramifications of your life.

Every morning wake up with new life and say no matter the matter I will make it because once you can deal with YOU inside of you, you will surely make it.
I challenge you to RISE UP, DRESS UP and GROW UP to your dreams.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

New plans

                                DEVELOP NEW PLANS
There are two times when a person is likely to quit, after a failure or after a victory. Instead, if at first you do succeed, try something harder. All progress is due to those who were not satisfied to let well enough alone.
The majority of men fail because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to improve those that succeed.

Do more than is required and continue doing it.
There is always a way then there is always a better way. When you've found something-look again. "It's what you learn after you know it all that count," say john wooden.
A successful man continues to look for work after he has found a job.

Show me a thoroughly satisfied man, and I will show you a failure by Thomas Edison. To achieved greatness in life you don't have to be satisfied with the little you are earned now.

AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Relationship proposal

                          RELATIONSHIP PROOSAL
Marriage is not for toddler in adult age it is meant for matured mind.
If any one go into! Marriage because of society view such person is going to rush out with regret.

You don't marry because of age, academic qualification, financial status nor because of beautiful or handsome. You will have to marry base understanding of to fufil destiny.

Finding a soul mate is not talking about sex compatibility neither is talking about the most beautiful or one of the handsome guy but talking about your missing ribs, the one that can fill your weakness with strength, your hopeless situation with hope.

You must know whether you are dating or in courtship with your partner because courtship is meant for talking out your differences while dating involve in testing(sex).

Any relationship that lack communication is heading to destruction.
You don't assumed for your partner that they supposed to know every right decision to make that is why you are there as helpmate. Talk it out resolved unnecessary argument.

Trust is one of the most important key in relationship; for relationship to be successful you must trust your partner no matter what happened. If you can't trust him/her completely you don't have business in rrelationship.

And do remember the number one key factor in relationship is prayer because you don't want to choose base on physical assessment alone. You will have to go spiritual, communicate with God and be sure of what you are entry into is not four nor five year course in the four wall of school.
YOU WILL HAVE TO PREPARED MORE FOR MARRIAGE THAN WEDDING IF YOU WANT TO HAVE SUCCESSFUL MARITAL  LIFE.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Change the only constant thing in life

        HOW DO YOU SEE THE WORD 'CHANGE'
Change, does this word scare or inspire you?
"A living thing is distinguished from a dead thing by the multiplicity of the changes at any moment taking place in it" by Herbert Spencer.
Change is evidence of life. It is impossible grow without change, the truth is life is always at some turning point.

What people want is progress, and they can't have it without change. You must change and recognized that change is your greatest ally. The person who never change his opinion, never correct his mistakes. The fact is, the road to success is always under construction. Don't end up like concrete, all mix up and permanently set.

You can can not become what you are destined to to be by remaining what you are. Do not fear change, it is unchangeable law of increase. Those who cannot change their mind cannot change anything in their life positively.

All progress is due to those who were not satisfied with their status quo.
In conclusion; change is what make you see your past mistake and correct them and make you focus towards future.
I'm going to drop the pen with this quote: "make a change and lead, accept change and survived, resist change and die.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Gratitude make us have more abundant

Success isn't accumulating possession, wealth, or power.
Success is obeying God. It means having those closet to you love and respect you the most.....Flowey

Loving people precedes leading them. People don't care how much you know until they know much you care.

It takes less time to do a things right than to explain why you did it wrong.

To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.

Learn to love without condition. Talk without bad intention. Give without any reason. And most of all, care for people without any expectation.

Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon... must inevitably come to pass.

I believe that children are our future. Teach them well and let them lead the way. Show them all the beauty they possess inside.

Every now and again take a good look at something not made with hands- a mountain, a star, the turn of a stream. There will come to you wisdom and patience and solace and, above all, the assurance that you are not alone in the world.

Never fixes your eyes on your problem, but fixes your eyes on God
Never feed on your problem by ruminating on it, but feed on God by surrender all to him....Flowey

Just as you wouldn't leave the house without taking a shower, you shouldn't start the day without at least 10 minutes of sacred practice: prayer, meditation, bible  reading.

There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

It is never too late to be what you might have been.

The most interesting thing about us is our ability to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering.

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is one of  the greatest accomplishment.

Most times your joy is the source of your happiness which bring out the beautiful smile on you. So while would you let someone, environment or situation determine your joy.

[ Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.

It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow....Flowey

Gratitude brings us closer to our creator an attitude drag us away from our Creator and away from helper....Flowey

Have a gratitude heart not an attitude heart....Flowey
©coachFlowey

What is your Habit

                 AN HABIT CALLED EXCUSE
Excuses is the most use world for lazy people. It's one the favourite of failure people because they use the word often to justify their actions.

When it comes to excuses, the world is full of great investors. Failure are experts at making excuses available if you are weak enough to use them.
Mistake have hidden powers to help us, but they fail in their mission of helping us when we blame them on other people.

When you use excuses you give up your power to change and improve. "Never mind of whom you praise but be careful whom you blame". You can fall down many times, but you won't be a failure until you say that someone else pushed you.
Never complain and never explain. Admitting errors clears then score and prove you wiser than before (Arthur Guiterman).

Doing a job right is always easier than fabricating an alibis for why you didn't. You waste time and creative energies thinking up excuses.
Nearly all failure come from people who have the habit of making excuses.

In conclusion the book of proverbs says, "work bring profit; talk brings poverty. If you are good at making excuses it will be hard for you to excel in anything you do in life.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey