Act of communication and forgiveness is a way to move forward

Lot of problems would never be problems if we could learn to talk to each other instead of about each other. Learn the act of communication.

People can be divided into three groups: those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened. Which one are you.

Never hold on to your past it will effect your present and prevent you from moving toward your future. Learn the act of forgiveness, forgive yourself and others that have wrong you in the past so that you can move forwards.

JESUS model of prayer

                   THE RIGHT WAY TO PRAY TO GOD.
Many of us pray in a wrong way that is why our prayer are not being answered. Next time when you want to pray,should be with a sincere heart and not a selfish payer. So a sincerity prayers s should be base on facts.
And FACTS means

F- Faith: the bible say without faith we can't receive from God.

A- Adoration: always adore him all the time for his mercy over your live.

C- Confession: confess your sin to him and he will forgive you in as much you have forgive those who trespass against you.

T- Thanksgiving: give thanks always for his goodness and mercy over your life.

S- Supplication: supplication means to make your request know to him. Ask him all you want and he's able to do more than and above you could ask of him.

To make your prayer request come to him first and for most have FAITH then ADORE him proceed to CONFESS your sin, thereafter THANKS him for he as done for you without collecting a penny from you. You can now make your request know to him and he will surely help you out.

Success is achieve by ordinary people

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

Do What You Gotta Do' is a positive, inspirational song that says no matter what it is; whether you're up against challenges or trying to get your dreams and aspirations met, you should do what whatever you have to do shy of killing yourself or someone else.

I believe success is achieved by ordinary people with extraordinary determination.

Experience is the best teacher

This world is your best teacher. There is a lesson in everything. There is a lesson in each experience. Learn it and become wise. Every failure is a stepping stone to success. Every difficulty or disappointment is a trial of your faith. Every unpleasant incident or temptation is a test of your inner strength.

There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.

The one thing all famous authors, world class athletes, business tycoons, singers, actors, and celebrated achievers in any field have in common is that they all began their journeys when they were none of these things.

Your are the architect of your life

Good morning people out there i was force out of my hub to make this observation, and what is it?

If you don't make it in life is not because the witch or wizard neither because the curse you inherited from your father house or your mother house as matter of fact the economic of the country has nothing to do with your failure ,even friends and families will not share in your woes because non of them is the architect of your failure but yourself.

Take a look at words of wisdom you do hear from various speakers everyday then scroll up again and check quote of knowledge share by coach flowey everyday you will see that its almost the same things  teach or preach almost the same things everyday talking about self determination and self reliance and talking about trying to do something new everyday.

If this this  speakers that are far from each other could be sharing the same words of knowledge everyday with you without informed each other this is what I want  to write about today and you can still read it everyday couple with the word of wisdom you do hear from your Church/mosque time to time yet you can't still come about how to shape your live better then I'm sorry to tell you that you  are a  nothing but a waste to your community and the nation entirely.

For your information,if you are still waiting for the president of this nation or some big rich men to come help you out from this predicament of yours you call job hunt  then permit me to tell you that you are inn for long things.

What are we saying is that get out of your shell contribute your own quota to your community, start a business with what you have ,not until you have millions of naira.  Do not always expect from someone to give you cultivate the habit of given. Always read book that will add value to your live listen to good music that will make your vision to be clear not the one that will make your dream and vision blur and watch a good oriented program on the TV not only dance all and above all trust in your God and all road to success will be open unto you.
Thanks you all for reading this pieces of mine
To make Nigeria better it begin with you and I .
Writing by Ayedero Olayemi ( coachFlowey)
You are all free to copy and paste it anywhere just make sure you give credit back to the writer.

We must believe we can

When the sun is shining I can do anything; no mountain is too high, no trouble too difficult to overcome.

We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained.

The only thing that stands between you and your dream is the will to try and the belief that it is actually possible.

Love and respect yourself

Love yourself, respect yourself. Never sell yourself short. Believe in yourself regardless of what other people think. You can accomplish anything, absolutely anything, if you set your mind to it.

Only those who have learned the power of sincere and selfless contribution experience life's deepest joy: true fulfillment.

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.

Something worth doing is worth doing well

I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do.

It's not enough to be busy; so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about?,Is it productive ?

Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. Just make sure you are doing something worthy of your time spent.

Quote of the day

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars.

To bear defeat with dignity, to accept criticism with poise, to receive honors with humility -- these are marks of maturity and graciousness.

If you're trying to achieve, there will be road blocks. I've had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. Good morning sir/ma, blessed weekend to you all.

Quote pf the day

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.

When someone steals another's clothes, we call them a thief. Should we not give the same name to one who could clothe the naked and does not? The bread in your cupboard belongs to the hungry; the coat unused in your closet belongs to the one who needs it; the shoes rotting in your closet belong to the one who has no shoes; the money which you hoard up belongs to the poor.

You can have everything you want in life if you just help enough people get what they want in life.

Quote of the day

When life knocks you down, try to land on your back. Because if you can look up, you can get up.
Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!
So don't give up of your dream you can achieve it if you can dream it.

Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. Come from poor background won't make you poor unless you choose to be.

Quote of the day

We cannot seek achievement for ourselves and forget about progress and prosperity for our community...Our ambitions must be broad enough to include the aspirations and needs of others, for their sakes and for our own.

If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten. Change your way of do things as usual.

Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known.
All you need is to explored you're community and make out something big out of ordinary.

Quote

To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars. Every challenges in life has its own advantage.

Remember that when you leave this earth, you can take with you nothing that you have received-only what you have given: a full heart enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice and courage.

Confidence in your God

CONFIDENCE IN YOUR GOD
God want you to face today,tomorrow and your future with confidence that the future is bright Christianity is a way of life not a religion You have to understand what Christ has come to do here on earth before you can enjoy his blessing fully you have to be sure of your stand with him (Christ) before you enjoy him Going to church every day without faith is like a farmer going to farm without farm tools so what is the essence of going to Church when you don't even have faith in the person you want to go and meet Stop trusting people because they will continued to disappoint you rather put your trust on God completely

Nigerian youth wake up

Originally written by Professor Isa.

Copied and pasted

MY DEAR NIGERIAN YOUTHS.

I am very angry and that is why I am addressing
you. You are the source of my anger and I want to vent my spleen- maybe not at you directly- but at the arrogance of your ignorance. Of all
nations of the world, you are to be most pitied.

Do you still wonder what you have done?
You don’t have an Ivy League education but
with the little below-standard education you got, all you could do with it is to write a
petition against someone with the benefit of an Ivy League education.

You can’t even run your personal economy as you’re almost always and perpetually broke yet you arrogate to yourself superior knowledge about the nation’s economy.

You sit in front of a computer and rant all day through social media but with every click, you make money - not for yourself - but for Mark
Zuckerberg (Facebook).

With every megabyte of data you spend complaining and maligning, you make
stupendous bucks for Etisalat, Glo and Airtel.

Over the next two years, the number of Nigerian millionaires will jump by 47% but most likely you will not be among because you are
too busy whining and complaining. And yet
about 60% of Nigeria’s 170m population are
below 35 years. Oh, what a waste!
By the way, Mark Zuckerberg was 19 when he started facebook.

Africa’s youngest billionaire, Ashish Thakkar, is 31. He escaped from the
Rwandan genocide and relocated to Uganda where he started an IT business. Collin Thornton, who made his millions by fixing bad computers and setting up Dial-a-Nerd, is 35.

Adam Horowitz, an 18-year-old entrepreneur,
started 30 websites in 3 years before he became successful.
The only thing you have ever started is an online petition.

Have you heard of Jason Njoku?
He’s 33 and the founder of Iroko TV. He received $8m investment into his company just a few years ago. What he does? Sharing the same Nollywood films that you spend hours to watch online. He didn’t just hang around waiting
for Buhari to make something happen or
blaming Jonathan for not making anything
happen.

Kamal Budhabhatti was deported from Kenya but while on the flight, he thought of the opportunities in Kenya. He found his way back after 6 months and today his company is valued at $30m. He’s 36.

Have you heard of Chinedu Echeruo? Apple just paid $1b for his app. He’s a Nigerian like you and all he did was attempt to fix a problem. But for you, the only thing you attempt to fix are your nails- and your hairdo! Chinedu moved to New York in 1995 and found it difficult to navigate the city with ease so he developed HopStop to fix the problem. Stop listing all the problems - we know them already but what are you doing about them?

-Awolowo was 37,  Akintola was 36, Ahmadu Bello was 36, Tafawa Balewa was 34, Okotie-Eboh was 27 and Enahoro was 27 at the time of independence of Nigeria.

In 1966, the first coup was led by Kaduna Nzeogwu (29) and stopped by Murtala Mohammed (28),
TY Danjuma (28),
IBB (25), Sanni Abacha (23) and Shehu Yaradua (23).

It brought in Yakubu Gowon as Head of State at 32 and Olusegun Obasanjo at 29.

You are in your 40s and you still sag your trousers.
Of course you know Linda Ikeji. You’ve spent hundreds of hours on her blog laughing and
commenting while she smiles her way to the bank. She’s just built a house for her father in the village- just by you clicking on her gossip and sharing.

Your day is not complete without a stop by at her blog. She was as broke as you are but she turned a hobby into a business. Are you
that void of understanding?

You think those politicians have any regard for you?

That is why I referred to the arrogance of
your ignorance at the beginning of this diatribe.
-You have a false estimation of yourself. You have an over bloated ego.
-You are only as good
as an election ticket - pure and simple.
-You are only good to used and discarded like a used ballot paper. Who keeps a used ballot paper anyway?

That is why they only remember you every four years. You are like a menstrual pad that is only useful during the menstrual period. Are you hurt? Okay, let me help you.

Have you heard of Professor Olusola Adeyeye before?
He is a Senator of the Federal Republic at the moment. But before he became a Senator, he was popular on facebook. Even more popular than so many latter day facebookivists. I was one of his many followers. He put up posts after posts and pander to populist thinking. Then he was elected and one of the first things he did was to deactivate his facebook account. Yes, you read me right. Deactivate.

How many times do
you still see El-Rufai’s tweets again? No longer regular? That is how it will dwindle until he disappears totally.

I’m not limiting it to the aforementioned alone and this is not about any party. They are all the same.
Yet you falsely believe your future is in the hands of one politician. You will grow grey hair
with that belief. And by the time you wise up, you’re on your way to the grave- not with a life expectancy of less than 60 years in this clime.

Can you see you have wasted your time? And possibly your life? See, people have been complaining since independence. And they will still complain in 4 years. Will you be among them?

I agree with my friend who said Nigerian youth need mental detoxification. And maybe I should add that you need a brain transplant. Let me give you another example. I’ve watched you try to pull some people down when you don’t like their face- or their comments. You report them to facebook. And they get pulled down.
Momentarily. Just momentarily.
Do you know why? Facebook knows those
people draw traffic. Their posts get huge numbers of comments. And with every comment and click, someone is making money. Will you allow your best customers to leave? That is why though facebook pulled down Adeyinka Grandson’s page, he was given a facebook fan page in return. Yes, a fan page. You need to get
a job and you need to get a life. There is life away from facebook or social media.
If you’re not making money from social media and you sleep on it, you’re merely existing- you’re not living. I have seen some of you take
selfish and pose in all manner of ways as you paste your photos on social media. Are you a
photographer or are you selling something that we don’t know? You’re unemployed because you’re unemployable. You don’t have skills.
Sorry, the major skill you have is that of pointing out the problems and debating about them. That’s a no brainer! You can’t even diagnose the problems properly.

You think Ngozi Okonjo- Iweala is your problem? You are a self-inflicted problem. You are afflicted with yourself and by yourself. If you’re looking for the reason why you are the way, you are - look no further than your mirror. Instead of occupying Nigeria, you should occupy your brain. The only witch chasing you from your village is you. It’s time to stop bewitching yourself.

Stop whining about lack of electricity or fuel. Do something about it. Every adversity has a
seed of opportunity embedded in it.

-Create something. Invent something. Start something.
Read up a book. Write a book. Take advantage of the present situation.

Nigeria is a huge market. Nigeria is a virgin market. Waiting for you. Unleash yourself. Release your passion. Follow your potential. Invent your way to prosperity. Stop waiting for government,  government only needs you when they need your taxes. Don’t depend on welfare.

People who depend on welfare don’t fare well. You think you lack capital? No, the problem is not lack of capital but lack of ideas. Just today,
two men stepped into my wife’s office selling
the new portraits of Buhari and Osinbajo.

That’s someone grabbing an opportunity and seizing the moment. I have a friend who started out by offering after-school lessons to kids on her street- now she has a school.

I know a lady who was indigent and self-sponsored on campus. Each night, she soaked beans and made ‘moin-moin’ in the morning for
sale on campus. I bought out of the moin moin as well as some other students and that was how she paid her way through University.

Not prostitution. Have you heard of Ayodeji
Megbope? She started her business with the last N1,000 she had on her.
Enough said.

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3 They know what they want and how to get it : successful people know what they want right from day one they they have choose the path they are following and the truth is the more they follow the right path the more clear their mission and vision are. No matter the obstacle they face on the way they never quite because they know what they want and how to get it, is not to quite on their way to success. So if you want to succeed in life you should know what you want and how to get it.

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2.They See Success as a must not an option: yea you heard me right, successful people don't give their background nor their environment either community or the situation they are passing through the choice to ask them whether they want to succeed or not its a must not and option. So until the youth of this generation discovered success as a must not an option before they can reach the peak of their career. You don't ask your problems or your background whether it want you to move forward because the choice is yours either to be the victims of the situation or the victors

How to succeed in life

Successful people do not have two head they only have one head as matter of fact majority of them are not born with
silver spoon not even wooden spoon and yet they still succeed despite all odd against them. The surprising truth is that some of them don't even have the opportunity of being educated in higher institution yet they make it to the top. Do you know why?: because they were determine that under no circumstances they will make it and here are some steps they take to achieve their various dream.
1. They don't wish alone but they take action: majority of youth nowadays want to be like dangote, otedola, adenuga etc yet they where not taking any step in achieving their dream they have forget the quote that say "if wishes were horse begger will ride". the different between you and the people in the ruling class is they take action to accomplish their wishes

Relationship tips

Relationship is for talking and not for smoothing
Purpose before partner
Sex will not make that man stay
sex is transfer of spirit Sex involved of spirit body and soul
If you loose somebody, you have loose something but you if you loose God you have loose everything

Quote of the day

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

Until I let go of what I am, I cant become what I'm supposed to be.
Good morning happy weekends

Motivational Quote

: When you are in bright light. Everyone Will Follow you But when you are in darkness even your own shadow will not follow you.

: Maturity is not when we start speaking big things. Its when we start understanding small things.

Physical strength is measured by what we can carry  and inner strength by what we can bear.

Stop thinking in terms of limitations and start thinking in terms of possibilities.

Live  everyday of your life like its the last day on earth.

Always remember it must be dark before the star can appeared, so don't give up on your dream u're at your edge of breakthrough. CoachFlowey

Knowing is not enough
We must apply
Willing is not enough, we must do

SUCCESS is not final,FAILURE is not fatal
Its the courage to continues that count.

To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice your gift. Don't give half give all your best and you will succeed. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

Your future is created by what you do today not tomorrow's . coachFlowey

Never blame anyone in your life
Good people gives you happiness
Bad people give you experience
Worst people gives you lesson and
Best people gives you memories

Dream is not what you see in sleep but something that didn't allowed you to sleep. Dream high today,its well with you. CoachFlowey

ABILITY is what you are capable of doing
MOTIVATION determine what you do
ATTITUDES determine how you will do it.

When you want to succeed as much you want to breathe that is when you will be successful.

To succeed we must believe WE CAN.

If nobody hates you, you are doing something boring.

Can you see yourself the way others see you?

Try and fail is part of live but don't fail to try cos that is worst thing that can happen to human being. CoachFlowey

You don't have be great to start your journey of breakthrough and progress,but you have to start from somewhere to be great. CoachFlowey

It does not matter where you are now but make sure you either walking or running ,because success does not come to does who stay idle always but only wish for good things to happen. CoachFlowey

You can't know everything in this life but the little you ever know make sure you know it very well because you have to fall for something otherwise you fall for everything that come your way. CoachFlowey

When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you will have more opportunities. Dream, Wish, Make it happen. CoachFlowey

If you don`t dream big, there`s no use of dreaming. If you don`t have faith, there`s nothing worth believing. CoachFlowey

When you judge someone else, it doesn't define who they are but define who you really are....stop judging peoples in your live it will only drag you backward instead think how they can be useful even in their state of stupidity. CoachFlowey

Learn to live without your worries because God will take care of everything: just trust,obey and have faith. CoachFlowey

Stand for what you believe in ,even if it means you're standing alone: the only way to succeed in the race of live is to guard,work and stay focus in what you believe in. CoachFlowey

When the mirror of Life gets dirty with the fog of reality, just try to wipe it with your faith in GOD, You will see the clear reflection of your dreams once again!

There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. CoachFlowey

Remember the five simple rules to be happy, Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

Do you know that you can not change yesterday neither can you predict tomorrow but you are alive today: so therefore live life today like yesterday didn't happened nor tomorrow exist by living right with your smile,because your smile is powerful tool to put enemy in confusion state. CoachFlowey

"We have to recognize that there cannot be
relationships unless there is commitment, unless
there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience,
persistence."

"Set the standard! Stop expecting others to
show you love, acceptance, commitment, &
respect when you don't even show that to
yourself." CoachFlowey

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in
anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or
a hobby."

Obstacles can’t stop you, problems can’t stop you, most of all, other people can’t stop you. The only one who can stops you is yourself. CoachFlowey

Never try to go back and repair the past which is impossible. But be prepared to construct the future which is possible. CoachFlowey

The most painful things is losing who you are in the process of loving someone too much. Care for someone today but do not over do it. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

: Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. So dear reader give God a GRATITUDE today not an ATTITUDE. CoachFlowey

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my family,friends and relative.

If you are not willing to learn, No one can help you. If you are determined to learn, No one can stop you, the choice is yours.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful.  don't let your problems overwhelming you, stand tall for your dream and be focus. CoachFlowey

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. Meaning you can't loose anything by impact lives positively, always put in mind that giver never lack. Contribute your own quota to your community today.

Sometimes the best revenge is moving forward and being happy despite the people that try to drag you down. Don't give up.

You don’t have to watch what you say if you watch what you think. So essence think before you talk. CoachFlowey

People might say you are not normal but if you ask me normal isn’t that much fun. being yourself and being abnormal is Awesome, don’t change who you really are.

You are not poor because you don’t have money. You are poor if you don’t have a dream. CoachFlowey

If you born poor it’s not your mistake but if you die poor it’s your mistake.

Usually the people who degrade others are self conscious about themselves. They want to feel empowerment over you & see you get in your feelings. Don’t let them.

When you pray and no result to show for it,don't give up God has not forget you: He's only preparing you for greater things. CoachFlowey

Never allowed your yesterday result affect today's own because new things are for new day.

Living up to a century without making impact is like dying at infant there is no difference : To live an impact full live make sure you make someone smile today. CoachFlowey

Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there’s dream, there is hope and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living. CoachFlowey

: Success seems to be connected with action. Successful men keep moving. They make mistakes but they do not quit.

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold and your health is wealth. Good morning.

If an egg is broken by outside force, life ends, if broken by inside force, life begins. Great things always begin from inside.

Life is like the ocean. It can be calm and still or rough and rigid but in the end, it is always beautiful.

Sometimes life just seems like chapters. Some good, some bad, but all come together to create the story of our lives.

The choice you made as a youth will determined your future, whether you choose rights or wrong.

You can not be passive. A YES to God is NO to devil likewise A NO to God is automatically yes to devil: just know that you can not be passive you either belong to God or devil. CoachFlowey

Dreams are for older people while vision are for young ,because dream are for past while visions are for futures : so therefore stop dreaming and started acting towards your vision,future and your purpose in life. CoachFlowey

Never let the sun go down on your anger. You might not get the light of a new day to say I am sorry.

Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself.

To talk without thinking first is just like to shoot without aiming...so always think before you talk. Good morning all.

Being single is not a big deal because sooner or later you will find your true love. Just be a little more patient.

Don’t prioritize your friends over your family. Friends come and go but your family will be with you even when you’ve fallen.

Good relationships are like trees. They provide shade to us shade in all situations of life. Try to involve yourself good relationship today because it also prolong live span.

Never allowed your success to get to your head;it will only bring pride that will lead to your fall.
Never allowed your failure to get into your heart; it will only bring sorrow which lead to depressions. CoachFlowey

Don't give devil your attention otherwise he's going to give you his directions, Rather stay focus to your creator and be contended. CoachFlowey

Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great. Weak men wait for opportunities; strong men make them.

The beauty of life is, while we can’t undo what is done, but we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change.

God gives answer in 3 ways. It says Yes I gives u what u want, it says wait and i will gives u something better, it says wait a little longer and I will  gives u the Best! CoachFlowey

Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful. CoachFlowey

Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you’re going to do now and do it.

Try to learn something about everything and everything about something.

Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people, one who can trust and one who can understand.

Destiny is for losers. It`s just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen.

You are living a fake live, if you can not trust your heavenly father but you can trust your earthly father's. CoachFlowey

You will only continue to complicate matter,if you still have problems to trust God completely. CoachFlowey

Don’t let anyone’s ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be. CoachFlowey

It doesn't matter how big you succeed in life, its how humble you are in person that matters.

Start by doing whats necessary, then do whats possible and suddenly you are doing impossible.

When the past calls, let it go to voicemail.. it`s got nothing new to say.

You can never make the same mistake twice, because the second time you make it, its not a mistake, its a choice..

Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no LOVE. Without trust there is no reason to continue.

The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.

Leadership is not a skill, it is a talent we appreciate how you always give your best and inspire us to do the same.

The best leader is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it.

The recipe of friendship: 1 cup of sharing. 2 cups of caring. 3 cups of forgiveness & hugs. Mix all of these together to make friends 4ever.

Friends in your life are like the pillars on your front porch. Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you. Sometimes it’s just enough to know they are standing by.

Never take a shortcut in life, take the long route because you pick up more experiences on the way.

Great personality will always make you more attractive than someone who only has a great face.

Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you” that would suffice.

To God be the glory we are the light of the world, God said he will have mercy on those who I'll have mercy on. I congratulate you you are one of them. CoachFlowey

Say thank you Almighty God;because he said he's going to protect you through out  this year and he fulfil his promise despite your unfaithful to him. CoachFlowey

Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there’s love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.

Life is like driving a car. It’s okay to look behind sometimes but keep looking straight because life’s goes on.

Your life doesn’t get better by chance, It gets better by CHANGE.

Life is like race between cat & rat. But rat mostly wins because cat runs for food rat runs for life. Always remember purpose is more important then need.

You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind. Because from mind come the issues of life. CoachFlowey

We never get what we want, We never want what we get, We never have what we like, We never like what we have. Just because we are never satisfy and that is what make our lives not to be stable.. The secret is be CONTENTED.

Alter your attitude and you can alter your life. Good talent or skill without good attitude is like a beautiful lady without husband. CoachFlowey

Run with your dreams and follow your passions. Make things happen. Change courses. This will lead you to your destiny. CoachFlowey

Don`t run from your fears, when they catch up with you, you`ill be too tired to fight. Rather face it now and overcome it. CoachFlowey

Our dreams inspire us to live life to the fullest, our sorrows guide us in learning & accepting who we are, wisdom is what we achieve from experiencing both.

You can choose your behavior or action but people  choose the consequence .

An arrow may fly through the air and and leave no trace but an ill thought leave a trace like a serpent. So always guide your heart.
If a person seems wicked, do not cast him away. Awaken him with your words, elevate him with your deeds, repay his injury with your kindness. Do not cast him away; cast away his wickedness.

Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success
Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.

Go as far as you can see; when you get there, you'll be able to see farther. Good morning have a wonderful day ahead.

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.

And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear, but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.

Ask and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you. Don't hesitate to ask your heavenly father that things you need and he will surely grant you're heart desired.

Words have special powers. The power to create smiles or frowns. The power to generate laughs or tears. The power to lift up or put down. The power to motivate or de-motivate. The power to teach good or evil. The power to express love or hate. The power to give or take. The power to heal or harm. Choose your words carefully.

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

You must be the change you wish to see in the world
You can't continued doing nothing and expect change in your community.
#to make Nigeria better it begins with you
#its our collectively job,don't stay idle

Motivational Quote

: When you are in bright light. Everyone Will Follow you But when you are in darkness even your own shadow will not follow you.

: Maturity is not when we start speaking big things. Its when we start understanding small things.

Physical strength is measured by what we can carry  and inner strength by what we can bear.

Stop thinking in terms of limitations and start thinking in terms of possibilities.

Live  everyday of your life like its the last day on earth.

Always remember it must be dark before the star can appeared, so don't give up on your dream u're at your edge of breakthrough. CoachFlowey

Knowing is not enough
We must apply
Willing is not enough, we must do

SUCCESS is not final,FAILURE is not fatal
Its the courage to continues that count.

To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice your gift. Don't give half give all your best and you will succeed. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

Your future is created by what you do today not tomorrow's . coachFlowey

Never blame anyone in your life
Good people gives you happiness
Bad people give you experience
Worst people gives you lesson and
Best people gives you memories

Dream is not what you see in sleep but something that didn't allowed you to sleep. Dream high today,its well with you. CoachFlowey

ABILITY is what you are capable of doing
MOTIVATION determine what you do
ATTITUDES determine how you will do it.

When you want to succeed as much you want to breathe that is when you will be successful.

To succeed we must believe WE CAN.

If nobody hates you, you are doing something boring.

Can you see yourself the way others see you?

Try and fail is part of live but don't fail to try cos that is worst thing that can happen to human being. CoachFlowey

You don't have be great to start your journey of breakthrough and progress,but you have to start from somewhere to be great. CoachFlowey

It does not matter where you are now but make sure you either walking or running ,because success does not come to does who stay idle always but only wish for good things to happen. CoachFlowey

You can't know everything in this life but the little you ever know make sure you know it very well because you have to fall for something otherwise you fall for everything that come your way. CoachFlowey

When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you will have more opportunities. Dream, Wish, Make it happen. CoachFlowey

If you don`t dream big, there`s no use of dreaming. If you don`t have faith, there`s nothing worth believing. CoachFlowey

When you judge someone else, it doesn't define who they are but define who you really are....stop judging peoples in your live it will only drag you backward instead think how they can be useful even in their state of stupidity. CoachFlowey

Learn to live without your worries because God will take care of everything: just trust,obey and have faith. CoachFlowey

Stand for what you believe in ,even if it means you're standing alone: the only way to succeed in the race of live is to guard,work and stay focus in what you believe in. CoachFlowey

When the mirror of Life gets dirty with the fog of reality, just try to wipe it with your faith in GOD, You will see the clear reflection of your dreams once again!

There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. CoachFlowey

Remember the five simple rules to be happy, Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

Do you know that you can not change yesterday neither can you predict tomorrow but you are alive today: so therefore live life today like yesterday didn't happened nor tomorrow exist by living right with your smile,because your smile is powerful tool to put enemy in confusion state. CoachFlowey

"We have to recognize that there cannot be
relationships unless there is commitment, unless
there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience,
persistence."

"Set the standard! Stop expecting others to
show you love, acceptance, commitment, &
respect when you don't even show that to
yourself." CoachFlowey

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in
anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or
a hobby."

Obstacles can’t stop you, problems can’t stop you, most of all, other people can’t stop you. The only one who can stops you is yourself. CoachFlowey

Never try to go back and repair the past which is impossible. But be prepared to construct the future which is possible. CoachFlowey

The most painful things is losing who you are in the process of loving someone too much. Care for someone today but do not over do it. Good morning all. CoachFlowey

: Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. So dear reader give God a GRATITUDE today not an ATTITUDE. CoachFlowey

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my family,friends and relative.

If you are not willing to learn, No one can help you. If you are determined to learn, No one can stop you, the choice is yours.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful.  don't let your problems overwhelming you, stand tall for your dream and be focus. CoachFlowey

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. Meaning you can't loose anything by impact lives positively, always put in mind that giver never lack. Contribute your own quota to your community today.

Sometimes the best revenge is moving forward and being happy despite the people that try to drag you down. Don't give up.

You don’t have to watch what you say if you watch what you think. So essence think before you talk. CoachFlowey

People might say you are not normal but if you ask me normal isn’t that much fun. being yourself and being abnormal is Awesome, don’t change who you really are.

You are not poor because you don’t have money. You are poor if you don’t have a dream. CoachFlowey

If you born poor it’s not your mistake but if you die poor it’s your mistake.

Usually the people who degrade others are self conscious about themselves. They want to feel empowerment over you & see you get in your feelings. Don’t let them.

When you pray and no result to show for it,don't give up God has not forget you: He's only preparing you for greater things. CoachFlowey

Never allowed your yesterday result affect today's own because new things are for new day.

Living up to a century without making impact is like dying at infant there is no difference : To live an impact full live make sure you make someone smile today. CoachFlowey

Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there’s dream, there is hope and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living. CoachFlowey

: Success seems to be connected with action. Successful men keep moving. They make mistakes but they do not quit.

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold and your health is wealth. Good morning.

If an egg is broken by outside force, life ends, if broken by inside force, life begins. Great things always begin from inside.

Life is like the ocean. It can be calm and still or rough and rigid but in the end, it is always beautiful.

Sometimes life just seems like chapters. Some good, some bad, but all come together to create the story of our lives.

The choice you made as a youth will determined your future, whether you choose rights or wrong.

You can not be passive. A YES to God is NO to devil likewise A NO to God is automatically yes to devil: just know that you can not be passive you either belong to God or devil. CoachFlowey

Dreams are for older people while vision are for young ,because dream are for past while visions are for futures : so therefore stop dreaming and started acting towards your vision,future and your purpose in life. CoachFlowey

Never let the sun go down on your anger. You might not get the light of a new day to say I am sorry.

Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself.

To talk without thinking first is just like to shoot without aiming...so always think before you talk. Good morning all.

Being single is not a big deal because sooner or later you will find your true love. Just be a little more patient.

Don’t prioritize your friends over your family. Friends come and go but your family will be with you even when you’ve fallen.

Good relationships are like trees. They provide shade to us shade in all situations of life. Try to involve yourself good relationship today because it also prolong live span.

Never allowed your success to get to your head;it will only bring pride that will lead to your fall.
Never allowed your failure to get into your heart; it will only bring sorrow which lead to depressions. CoachFlowey

Don't give devil your attention otherwise he's going to give you his directions, Rather stay focus to your creator and be contended. CoachFlowey

Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great. Weak men wait for opportunities; strong men make them.

The beauty of life is, while we can’t undo what is done, but we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change.

God gives answer in 3 ways. It says Yes I gives u what u want, it says wait and i will gives u something better, it says wait a little longer and I will  gives u the Best! CoachFlowey

Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending.

Problems are with every one, it is on us to become the victim or overcome the situation and become successful. CoachFlowey

Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you’re going to do now and do it.

Try to learn something about everything and everything about something.

Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people, one who can trust and one who can understand.

Destiny is for losers. It`s just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen.

You are living a fake live, if you can not trust your heavenly father but you can trust your earthly father's. CoachFlowey

You will only continue to complicate matter,if you still have problems to trust God completely. CoachFlowey

Don’t let anyone’s ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be. CoachFlowey

It doesn't matter how big you succeed in life, its how humble you are in person that matters.

Start by doing whats necessary, then do whats possible and suddenly you are doing impossible.

When the past calls, let it go to voicemail.. it`s got nothing new to say.

You can never make the same mistake twice, because the second time you make it, its not a mistake, its a choice..

Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no LOVE. Without trust there is no reason to continue.

The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.

Leadership is not a skill, it is a talent we appreciate how you always give your best and inspire us to do the same.

The best leader is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it.

The recipe of friendship: 1 cup of sharing. 2 cups of caring. 3 cups of forgiveness & hugs. Mix all of these together to make friends 4ever.

Friends in your life are like the pillars on your front porch. Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you. Sometimes it’s just enough to know they are standing by.

Never take a shortcut in life, take the long route because you pick up more experiences on the way.

Great personality will always make you more attractive than someone who only has a great face.

Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you” that would suffice.

To God be the glory we are the light of the world, God said he will have mercy on those who I'll have mercy on. I congratulate you you are one of them. CoachFlowey

Say thank you Almighty God;because he said he's going to protect you through out  this year and he fulfil his promise despite your unfaithful to him. CoachFlowey

Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there’s love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.

Life is like driving a car. It’s okay to look behind sometimes but keep looking straight because life’s goes on.

Your life doesn’t get better by chance, It gets better by CHANGE.

Life is like race between cat & rat. But rat mostly wins because cat runs for food rat runs for life. Always remember purpose is more important then need.

You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind. Because from mind come the issues of life. CoachFlowey

We never get what we want, We never want what we get, We never have what we like, We never like what we have. Just because we are never satisfy and that is what make our lives not to be stable.. The secret is be CONTENTED.

Alter your attitude and you can alter your life. Good talent or skill without good attitude is like a beautiful lady without husband. CoachFlowey

Run with your dreams and follow your passions. Make things happen. Change courses. This will lead you to your destiny. CoachFlowey

Don`t run from your fears, when they catch up with you, you`ill be too tired to fight. Rather face it now and overcome it. CoachFlowey

Our dreams inspire us to live life to the fullest, our sorrows guide us in learning & accepting who we are, wisdom is what we achieve from experiencing both.

You can choose your behavior or action but people  choose the consequence .

An arrow may fly through the air and and leave no trace but an ill thought leave a trace like a serpent. So always guide your heart.
If a person seems wicked, do not cast him away. Awaken him with your words, elevate him with your deeds, repay his injury with your kindness. Do not cast him away; cast away his wickedness.

Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success
Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.

Go as far as you can see; when you get there, you'll be able to see farther. Good morning have a wonderful day ahead.

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.

And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear, but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.

Ask and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you. Don't hesitate to ask your heavenly father that things you need and he will surely grant you're heart desired.

Words have special powers. The power to create smiles or frowns. The power to generate laughs or tears. The power to lift up or put down. The power to motivate or de-motivate. The power to teach good or evil. The power to express love or hate. The power to give or take. The power to heal or harm. Choose your words carefully.

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

You must be the change you wish to see in the world
You can't continued doing nothing and expect change in your community.
#to make Nigeria better it begins with you
#its our collectively job,don't stay idle

Word of encouragement

If we magnified blessings as much as we magnify disappointments, we would all be much happier.

Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant.

Of all human activities, man's listening to God is the supreme act of his reasoning and will.
Good morning all and happy weekend.
#coachFlowey.

OlayemiFlowey

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New Year message

HURRAY!!!!! Happy new year everyone. I pray this year shall be our better year it shall be our year of grace. Listen my dear friends, no matter what you pass through or encounter in 2015 I'm announcing to you now that your time of sorrow shame sickness poverty failure disfavor stagnation and shame is over you are now walking to your success lifted breakthrough progress favour abundant blessing and better year is here for you. Once again I congratulate you for seen the new year. I'm now officially welcome you to my year of UNCOMMON REWARD.....Gen.15:1 #coachFlowey