letter from a concern Nigerian youth

Good day fellow Nigerians, and let me first and foremost commensurate with the families that lost loved ones during our struggle for better Nigeria, may God give us the fortitude to bear the inspearable loss.

It's been a very long time I write or talk about state of affairs of our dear nation Nigeria reason best describe ' Diplomatic', but it's very impressive of me to pour out my mind now, not for the sake of Nigerian youth only but also for the purpose of peace of mind.

Nigeria is full of honey and milk like we do say, but permit me to say it's more than that in fact, Nigeria is full of opportunities, full of potential and it's full of a lot of genius and smart people

But it's so unfortunate that, the people at the helm of affairs didn't allow all of these germinate as long you still reside in the country and that's why you hardly see any Nigerian outside the shore of the country that is not doing well in their chosen career.

Almost every Nigerian outside the shore of Nigeria are doing wonderfully well for themselves to the extent that those who are in underdeveloped nation still find their feet but not in the country of their birth, why because of the Corrupt system that have eaten deep into every sector.

Permit me to say this not where I'm going or what I'm here to preach, I don't even have the command of diction or the prowess of using the Queen's language to pass such message across.
The truth is many people have been writing such article for long time now.

Many have continually shown us our problem as a country through different medium but only few has provided solutions or suggested how to be free from the claw of the politicians and their cronies.

Let me say that I have always wanted to write about state of the nation for very long time but the fear is grammatical blunder won't allow me to take such bold step, (Well that was then not again if you found any error here it's not intentional. It's actually the state of educational system of the country)

Where am I?
Okay what nudged me to come out of my shell to write this 750 letter word is because "Nigerians Adjust too quickly to Norms" and it's what annoyed me and trigger my anger.

For good two weeks we are in different strategic places all over southern Nigeria 'Peacefully protesting against #police brutality
most especially #Endsars and it's turn out well even gaining momentum outside the country until sponsored thugs and hoodlums from the enemy of state hijack it and started maimed protestors even to the extent of destroying some of the government properties all in the name of giving our peaceful protest a bad name.


Eventually the protest took new turn on October 20, 2020 i.e 20/10/2020 when the Nigeria Army led their battalion like going to war to the peaceful protester at lekki tollgate and open fire on the harmless youth whom had no gun nor Cutlass or any ammunition except the Nigerian flag and to cut short a lot of sound mind also wasted so many beautiful and brilliance lives that very night which till now they are yet acclaimed responsibility.

The turn of the event make some of the angry youth and wholesome of used and abandon thugs by some politicians go on haywire and started destroying lot of properties and eventually lead to massive looting by the same set of hoodlums they equiped during the last general election.

With this reckless looting and vandalization of properties, government now seize the opportunity to bring an abrupt end to the protest which is their aim from the beginning because it has never occurred to them that youth of the nation could unite in one voice to demand for justice, for all the atrocities the police and the men in power have committed.

On this note, I will like to tell the Nigerian youth and well meaning Nigerians that it's not over yet in short "it's not over until it's all over".

So why am I writing this epistle?

First to tell us well done. Our voice have been heard loud and clear.
Because the whole thing came to them as shock in fact some of them are yet to recover from the shock...

To tell us and even remind us that the death of our heroes both in lekki tollgate and all other part of the country is not in vain and we must ensure we continue with the zeal to get a new Nigeria...

Secondly, to encourage us not to give up now that we just woke up.
In fact we can't afford to give up now, our heroes and the coming generation will not forgive us if we do that.

We must also know that this agent of evil that refused "the tomorrow of the youth" to surface are not relaxing or back out from making sure we get divided base on ethnics and religion line and I must tell you they are using every means to achieve this once again.


Thirdly, dear Nigerian youth, I want to employ us to be our brother's keeper, just remember for days we were under the cold and hot weather, protesting and there was nothing like you are igbo, you are Yoruba or you an ijaw man.
So let continue to remain in one voice, in one accord.

Note and remember we are all 'Human' first before tribe, race, religion or class.
Do let's joined our voices together and continue our peaceful protest online for now and let us also use the media platforms to educate ourselves of our constitution right.

At this juncture permit me to say this;

The hoodlums those politicians used to disturb public peace don't even know their value and right as citizen of this great nation.
Therefore it's our sole duty to educate and enlighten them rather than make them our common enemy.
many of us have them around us in our neighborhood, community and even at place of works...

Let's sensitize them of danger of being patriots to this evil politicians at the expenses of their
nation.


The fourth reason I'm writing this, dear comrade is to tell you not to end your struggles and we should not end all our collective effort on protest alone either physical or online rather we should take a step further by making sure we all get our permanent voters card PVC and get ready for the next election - 2023..

My dear youth we shouldn't stop in getting our PVC only we need to fight this rogues at the helm of affairs in diplomatic way and this is the reason for as many of us that have the zeal, the energy and vision to lead Nigeria at all levels should find a party that promote Equity and justice most especially party that promote " Not Too Young To Rule" and declare their intentions with their clear blue print mission to rescue Nigeria.

From this time henceforth we should continue to sensitize all the youth especially those that are not in the capital city, the importance of their vote and the reason why their PVC is very important


On this note, I want to conclude that Quitters never win and Winners never quit

We all must know that it's our collective responsibilities not to insult the the memory of departed comrades and this is the reason we need to keep reminding our self the mission and not losing focus at any point in time till we achieve the Nigeria of our dream...

Where police will treat all the citizens with respect and where the citizens we see police as friend and not threat.

Where there where will be transparency and accountability in governance...

Were the public office holder will go in just for the love they have for the people and not the love they have for the materials things.

Where the government of the day will be for the people, by the people and with people.

On final note; I want every well-meaning Nigerian youth to know that We won't stop because we are tired but we shall stop when we are done making Nigeria great

God Bless Nigeria
God Bless Nigerian youths
#Endbadgovernance
#Endpolicebrutality
#Endinjustice
#Alutacontinual
#victoryascertain

Written by Ayedero Olayemi
©CoachFlowey

WRONG PHILOSOPHIES

WRONG PHILOSOPHIES

It's high time youth of this generation know that some philosophies use in the Past might no longer necessary in this present world . And if any man want to go far in life he\ she should not follow or act base on this old philosophies of life.

1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it
happened. You have a part to play in what will be in your
life, so don't leave it to chance.
``
2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a
full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting
belief that positions you to settle for less and it is
a mediocre to philosophy. Those  who own bakery do not have two head they make things happened.
```
3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he
refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too
late to become wise because the day you wake up
and wise up is the day you CHANGE!`
`
4. *"ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL"*
```Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not
equal but that does not make any of them
valueless. Lose one and you realise that they are
all valuable. You are not even a finger, so why
look down on yourself. You are not born in a silver spoon home does not make you poor unless you choose to.
``
5. *"LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY"*
```If you are below forty and believe this, I feel so
sorry for you because it means you are not yet
alive you are only exist.
```
6. *"WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN"*
```Is your age coming down? Is your wisdom and
knowledge coming down? Is the price of goods
coming down? Think my friend!` why do you have negative thinking about your success? must you think of failure?
``
7. *"HE WHO LAUGH LAST, LAUGHS BEST!"*
```Why laugh last when you can laugh always and
why laugh best when laughter is not a
competition. When we programmed ourselves
with these strange philosophies, they limit and
restrict us from doing what we supposed to do now. Change the way you think and talk..
You will change your world.
You have the opportunity to RECREATE YOUR
WORLD`.
©coachFlowey`

Potential wife beater

                              POTENTIAL WIFE BEATER
Lucy wake up and discovered she was in hospital bed and she began to wonder how she get there. Later in the day things begin to have meaning to her. It all started five years ago when she first meet Jake at single for eagle summit and they exchange contact. From there their relationship started, but one thing Lucy never take notice of is the way Jake was posses of her. She only thought it is because his love her for that is why he so posses of her.

And all the sign that is glaring to Lucy face then, that she take with levity hand are.
Command tone; whenever they are together back then during their courtship Jake is the commander, always dictate everything for Lucy like what clothe to were, type of functions she should attend and the kind of friend she should keep, and any time she want to resist any of the law Jake will shout on her threatens her with break up. But it's unfortunate Lucy never see anything wrong with this, to her so far he never raise his hand on her before so she ASSUMED and THOUGHT that all is well.

Movement monitored; Anytime Lucy try to go out unknown to her Jake use to monitors her movement and whenever she wanted to make call Jake would have to confirmed that is not another man she wanted to call, that is when they are still dating. still with all this Lucy never see anything wrong.
All this never matter to her because all that matter is the fact she the one and only girlfriend of his.

But today after become mrs Jake all that never count before have now become real issue in her marriage because any little argument now will surely lead to serious beating, Lucy being the receiver while Jake is the giver. And the one that lead her to the hospital bed is because her cousin called her just to hear her voice since it has being a while they see each other but it's so unfortunate that "I love you" was the last statement mr Jake heard from her wife before he descend on her until she became unconscious without confirming who she is talking to.

To you reading this are you Lucy in your current relationship and your supposed future husband is mr Jake and you still  think there is no problems or cause for alarm. May be you even think all that matter is love and since he love you and he always give you money.

You even count he's possessing of you as being having time for you.  But I will caution you to look at handwriting on the wall. Leopard can not change is spot so thinking for him that he's still going to change from that habit of command you, following you all around or harassing you either in public or private is lie from pit of hell.

Mind you a healthy relationship must not have trust issue if he can't trust you now he will never trust you. And do stop deceiving yourself by thinking there won't a better man if you drop this potential wife beater because its a matter of time before he's going to turn you to a punch bag if he has all this sign and you did not quit.

Note; love do not posses love protect, love do not command love correct, love do not kill love heal, love do not confuse love convinced, love do not destroy love build....Flowey

Marry late with a peaceful mind is far better than early marriage full of trouble and all sort of problems.... Flowey

AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey

Virtue lady

               MESSAGE FOR OUR LADIES
Fashion is good in fact I
support you to wear clothes that will look smart
on you but mind you any clothe that exposed your
body is not only bad but also you are exposing
your destiny.
also moderately make up is good but too much of
it will just turn you to a masquerade in woman
form.
speaking good English is good to communicate
but forming a fake ascent just to impress will not
only destroy your moral it will cause you your
destiny too.
And who told you black is not beautiful, you don't
have to bleach your skin before you can attract
good guys. as matter of fact you are bleaching
your destiny in the process because you will only
attract no future guys with your bleaching skin.
what I'm preaching is self confidence be satisfied
with your real self you are not two you're just one
and be sure that nobody can make you feel
inferior without your consent .
©coachFlowey

The Real You

                THE "YOU" INSIDE OF YOU
You are destined for success, breakthroughs, progress and greater things in life only if YOU inside of you allowed it.
Listen the truth is bitter you will have to swallow it anyway if you want to succeeded in life.

It is not the opinion of people about you or the conditions you found yourself that will determine your success but what is inside of YOU. Your background will do less or nothing neither your academic qualification will make you scale through the hurdles of life but what is inside of YOU.

D.D.D.F.A explained something about life and they are as follow.

DETERMINATION; if you are not determine to make sure the you inside comply with you outside you will be frustrated with issues of life in a short run, that is why you will have to determine within yourself that you will not quit in the part of success you have choose.

DEDICATION; even working with chevron if you are not dedicate to the work you are assigned with you will be shown the way out before you know what is happening. Dedication will make your work different from others that have been doing it for long.

DISCIPLINE; You will have to discipline the you inside to comply the real you outside if you want to go far in life because it's certain your body will surely want to to go against the necessary cross you suppose to carry before your crown.

FOCUS; Yes you hear the word focus, choosing a carear is not enough like wise gained admission into higher institution is not big deal but staying focus is the key that can change your name to success make you live in breakthrough avenue and drive achievement car.

ATTITUDE; Even if you have knowledge in all area of life but have bad character you will not move forward talk less of making it in life. Good character is like a light unto your path that will make you see ahead of others.

In all this remember the G factors which is God the father Jesus Christ the son and the comforter Holy spirit and your ways will be prosperous.
Known this the sweetest revenge ever is to show the people that thought you can't make it by succeed in all ramifications of your life.

Every morning wake up with new life and say no matter the matter I will make it because once you can deal with YOU inside of you, you will surely make it.
I challenge you to RISE UP, DRESS UP and GROW UP to your dreams.
AYEDERO OLAYEMI E.
©coachFlowey